Asking for support

My boyfriend disappeared on me after a disagreement that we had and now I'm deeply depressed.. I haven't heard from him in 4 weeks and he hasn't returned any of my messages or calls so now I'm moving on. I stopped contacting him after he ignored my message on Facebook. He seems to do this anytime we get into a minor argument it seems like. I've been very patient with him when he was going through hard times with depression and supported him when he needed someone to talk too. Doubt I could ever give him another chance after him doing this because it hurts.

I seem to always get depressed when I'm broken up with. I don't have a fear of abandonment, but I do have a hard time dealing with heartache and it takes me awhile to heal from it. In the past I didn't deal with it all that well but now I know eventually I will heal from this.

Right now I'm really depressed due to him disappearing and not able to communicate with me about anything. It seems like he's keeping things from me too as I think back on our relationship. Just never noticed it before.

This is something that was bound to happen but I gave it a shot because I deeply loved him a lot and he wanted us to work out so we both agreed to be honest with each other. Don't regret ever meeting him or that we got together.... I'm just frustrated that he could never talk to me about anything.

Instead he just seems to run away from everything, rather than talk to me about it. Anytime I have issues at hand, I always want to talk about it and try to work together to make it work out. He really broke my heart and I just got done crying a little bit ago... before I left he gave me a kiss and gave me a hug and told me that he'd see me again but looking back as I looked into his eyes he was looking at me sadly, I think the reason is because he no longer wanted to be with me and couldn't tell me himself... so instead he disappeared on me. Just hope there's someone who can understand this and be supportive because I think I was blinded the whole time and didn't see the truth..

Im sorry you are going through this... It always hurts when someone walks away and refuses to give you some kind of closure. Sure isnt fair but this happens.

I hope your able to grieve the loss and move forward with your life

Thank you. I finally let the tears come today because I couldn't bear it any longer. My mother knows I'm feeling sad and told me to keep myself busy. I always use Forums as a great way of an outlet. I really appreciate you responding to my thread. So thank you!!

I'm so sorry he put you through this. You deserve better. Thinking of you, big hugs.