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#26
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I've always see it as a character flaw.
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I agree that calling it a character flaw implies the person cannot change this. I think anyone with this problem can work on it to improve themselves. Then the question comes up is can the person cure themselves of poor judgement. Personally, I think this may not be possible. So there is an aspect of this that may be a perminant part of the problem. Perhaps with some people it is a character flaw? With others it may be there for some other reason, like the lack of discipline and effort in analyzing a situation and following through. I do think when it happens during a manic episode, it is caused by BP. I imagine this can include depression. But when symptom free, I think the reason may be found elsewhere.
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I like this question, even though I feel like it struck a nerve with me. I have made some very terrible choices over the course of my life. I look back on the worst of them and ask myself: if I wasn't mentally ill, underneath it all, is that who I am? I have to say no. Of course I accept responsibility for my actions as it was me, but the kind of heart and soul I have does not always match up with the choices I make.
100% my life would be different without MI and the choices that result from it. It's not an excuse for me to behave badly, but it is a part of how my mind works. |
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#29
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I think its a combination. have a stable friend help u watch for the triggers and altered behaviors that can get u in trouble.
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#30
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Character flaw. Everything is attributed to poor 'ole bipolar.
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]Roses are red. Violets are blue.[ Look for the positive in the negative. PIRILON. If lemons fall from the sky, make lemonade. Unknown. Nothing stronger than habit. Victor Hugo. You are the slave of what you say, and the master of what you keep. Unknown. |
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For me it's both. I've always had a hard time controlling myself when I'm shopping, but it got wayyy worse after bipolar symptoms started presenting themselves. Now I have absolutely no impulse control at all.
Also, I've always been liable to do risky things just for fun (like cliff diving, for example) but now I do risky things with reckless abandon, yes still for the fun of it, but much more dangerous things now because I don't value my life
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#32
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I think it can be either/or and both.
I know people with poor judgement who are free of any mental illness. I know people who are risk takers but only when their mood is up. I know people like me who do have a MI whove always enjoyed living a little bit on the edge but take well thought out calculated risks until theyre in a bipolar episode.
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I don't normally make risky decisions. In fact, I really have to step out of my comfort zone to even make regular decisions.
In an episode, though, I do make poor choices. I've made a lot of them. Unfortunately I've also made choices while in the throes of BPD. Sometimes it's hard to distinguish them. Even then, I know that I'm still a good person, even if I make poor choices. |
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