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View Poll Results: how do people see your age when they look at you?
older 4 12.50%
older
4 12.50%
younger 14 43.75%
younger
14 43.75%
about the same age 4 12.50%
about the same age
4 12.50%
varies 10 31.25%
varies
10 31.25%
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 04:18 AM
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when people look at you, do they tend to think you are older, or younger, or about the same age you are?

when people look at me, people always think I'm younger- people tend to ask me what I'm studying at school or if I'm planning to go to colledge.

I guess it's because of the way I act, and my limited experience in a lot of things (including my vocabulary)

so when people see you, what age do they think you are?
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 04:20 AM
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I'll add a question... how does it make you feel?

being called younger doesn't really bother me- it does deep inside me, but not enough to let it show
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 08:03 AM
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I don't know. Sometimes I'm called younger than 54 but my hair is all grey. My maturity is not 54.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 08:33 AM
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I have moments when I don't act my age
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 08:34 AM
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I have no idea. You should ask my mommy. She's the bestest person in the whole wide world.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 08:46 AM
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It varies.. it depends on the alter present.

None of us feel like we’re the body age of 50....we are all much younger than that even though the older ones (35) try to own it.

Bipolar though does give us the energy to feel younger, but then it can make us feel close to death, too.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 09:31 AM
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How do you know if your acting your age no one has ever been 21 twice etc lol.

I look younger than 33 as does my Twin. So I guess it's just how you feel. Sometimes I feel like I'm dumbed down since losing my job which would make me sound younger. Think my family treat me like I'm younger like I can't look after myself etc
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 09:39 AM
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Mostly. I'm 40, but when I have high anxiety and panic attacks, I feel & think I act much younger than I am. Same thing when I'm manic. My husband told me at a recent family birthday party when I was sitting next to my sister, we looked so alike we could be twins. I took that as a compliment; she is 5 years younger than I am.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 10:33 AM
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I don’t know what my age is..
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 10:51 AM
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I look younger than I am (I still get ID’d at the movie theater for R movies- Im pretty sure I look older than 17 but I guess movie theaters think that is debatable).

In some ways I act older than I am. In some ways younger. Im probably more self aware than the majority of individuals my age. I am less petty or spiteful or just- less into emotional ‘game playing’ that a lot of women my age like to do. But also, I feel like I am behind socially. A lot of the experiences others might have had- have been delayed for me. It took me longer to have my first intimate experience than others usually have it- and well,sometimes I feel like because of my conditions Ive missed out on more than I am even aware of- am stunted in ways that havent been shown yet.

So. In some ways I think Im more mature, in some ways less
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 11:47 AM
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People say I look younger, but I think I act my age, but feel older.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 01:51 PM
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I selected "younger than I really am", but almost selected "varies". Truth is, I'm not 100% sure how old everyone perceives me to be. At almost 47, I can say that I no longer get carded - LOL! However, in the recent few years I have had people say they thought I was in my mid to late 30s. You know, it really depends on my mood. When I'm feeling really good I take much better care of myself in various ways (styling my hair, dressing nicely). I also become extremely upbeat and humorous. I do think that happiness and humor can really make people look, and otherwise seem younger. Unfortunately, depression can age people a lot, too. Coincidentally, I wrote a blog post a few weeks ago called "Happiness is the cheapest face lift". If anyone is interested in it, it can be found at https://birdflight.blog/2018/03/16/h...est-face-lift/

When I'm elevated in mood, I become very flirtatious and extroverted, and a real "star of the show". Sometimes I am even when stable. I often flirt with much younger men, and they seem to enjoy it, too. I call myself a "cougar" and they laugh. Funny true story:

One day I went to lunch at a local pub and sat at the bar. One of the employees there always comes by to say hello, when I am there. He's got to be at least 10 years younger than me. We flirt up a storm. I told him that I knew I was trying to be a "cougar". He smiled hugely, lifted up his sweater, and revealed a t-shirt that honest to goodness read "Cougar" and has a picture of one on it, too. He and I, and an older woman who sat nearby (listening in) laughed up a storm.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 01:52 PM
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I got carded when ordering a drink this weekend - made my night (I'm 42).
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 01:57 PM
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Lucky you, Northchild, my friend! I would hope that if I went out for a drink with you that no one would think I was your mother!
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 05:12 PM
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I definitely look older. Genetics, obesity, and age haven't helped much.

I still feel younger, though. When I dream, it's a younger self. When I look in the mirror, I still don't feel right.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 05:21 PM
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I have no idea if I look my age or not honestly. Never ask and don't care.

I doubt I act my age. I like to live it up, goof off and have fun. My best friend is almost 10 years older than me and she tells me I bring out her young side.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 06:23 PM
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I'm older than I look but younger than I feel.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 07:54 PM
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I feel immature. I’ve always felt that way. I don’t know if it is MI or something else.
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Old Mar 25, 2018, 08:10 PM
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Wait a minute...the title of this post and poll is "Do you act your age". Acting my age and how other people see my physical self are entirely different things.

I act my age, more or less....other people always think I'm younger because I do look younger than I really am.
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Old Mar 26, 2018, 06:33 AM
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I can't tell what anyone's age is today, as I don't feel like I look 56. I'm definitely young at heart, not that I consider myself old, and then again what age is old. I have an 85 yr old friend, she's amazing and a lot of fun to be with. I don't see her as 85.
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Old Mar 26, 2018, 07:49 AM
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su4, I've always seen you as a young type woman. Certainly no older than I feel. My dad's about 76 and he's like an 18 year old. Actually, sometimes nowadays I feel more mature than him.
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Old Mar 26, 2018, 01:44 PM
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How do you know if your acting your age no one has ever been 21 twice etc lol.

I look younger than 33 as does my Twin. So I guess it's just how you feel. Sometimes I feel like I'm dumbed down since losing my job which would make me sound younger. Think my family treat me like I'm younger like I can't look after myself etc


well.... if you're 45 and you're bouncing up and down on a bouncy castle, drinking from a baby cup with a slurpy straw, people arn't going to look at you and go... well, they're 45

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Old Mar 28, 2018, 03:43 PM
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I try to hang out with the young. It's contagious. So is the olds.
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People usually think I'm younger based on my physical appearance. I'm often told that I act older than my age though.
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