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Old Mar 12, 2018, 09:23 PM
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So Im, getting anxious, embarrassed, frustrated and scared about my appointment with the urologist. My part isn’t working and hope to get it back up to par. My last time I barely lasted, it was a fraction of what I usually do. Mental issues have lead to a lot of physical problems, I guess from not taking care of myself.

I also realized I’m still anxious of seeing people. I would get depressed about just seeing people and get so envious. I guess that’s still active, cause I messed up and ditched on someone.

I see I’m still not ready for a relationship but want one so bad I hate being lonely but I’m scared off being a disappointment. I feel embarrassed and want to talk to someone about it but I feel like it’s too personal.

Ok I’m done. I’m going to bed hopefully wake up not depressed.
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Old Mar 12, 2018, 09:50 PM
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Any other guys have this problem? Relationship, approaching, ed?
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Old Mar 12, 2018, 09:51 PM
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Good luck my friend. We're all here for you.
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Old Mar 12, 2018, 10:01 PM
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Thanks. I just feel pathetic. Couldn’t get my job, let bills go up, didn’t finish school, gained so much weight, fell into such a bad depression, got diabetes and high blood pressure, foot issue, hurt my calf, back and shoulder issue, now man problems.
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Old Mar 12, 2018, 10:19 PM
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My husband has "issues". The GP said it's anxiety and referred him to his pdoc. The pdoc said it's not anxiety and referred him back to his GP. Now he goes back to GP tomorrow and I'm not sure if he can bring him self to talk about it yet again. He has high blood pressure too, I wonder if there's a connection. I'm sorry you have to bring up such a private issue. Hopefully you'll get answers.
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Old Mar 13, 2018, 06:37 AM
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I’m embarrassed by it. I saw there is cialis for daily use. Maybe I can get that. It’s just so hard to talk about with someone and not get them uncomfortable.
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Old Mar 13, 2018, 11:16 AM
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I’m embarrassed by it. I saw there is cialis for daily use. Maybe I can get that. It’s just so hard to talk about with someone and not get them uncomfortable.
Golly, you needn’t worry so! I thought myself to be completely impotent for 12 years but, as my depression waned, my sexybits began to respond again and my libido returned.

You may want to talk this out in what I think is called the “Sexuality and Gender Issues” forum. I believe that my sexual dysfunction was a byproduct of my depression - could that be your problem, too?

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Old Mar 13, 2018, 01:58 PM
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It's either depression, meds or both. Sexual dysfunction is a frequent side effect of many psychiatric medications. I know
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I’m embarrassed by it. I saw there is cialis for daily use. Maybe I can get that. It’s just so hard to talk about with someone and not get them uncomfortable.
Cialis and viagra are so expensive insurance wont cover it.
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Old Mar 13, 2018, 05:58 PM
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Sexual side effects are very common with psych meds. Sucks for many people.

Don’t be embarrassed, talk to your doctor
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Old Mar 13, 2018, 06:07 PM
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Hi Boogie, I totally get you about feeling embarrassed. But here's the thing...so many, many men have ed (and we women have sexual issues, too, but how dare we mention them to a doctor). Please, please try to be okay with your embarrassment while still seeking help from the urologist. Try not to be harsh with yourself for the way you feel.

I wish you the very best. Keep us posted.
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Old Mar 13, 2018, 08:40 PM
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I'll PM you tomorrow. Hang in there. Hang 10.
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Old Jun 08, 2018, 04:53 PM
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Well she prescribed cialis daily
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Old Jun 08, 2018, 07:28 PM
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Hmmm...I'll mention this to my husband, as he has similar issues.
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Old Jun 08, 2018, 08:06 PM
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Took a while to get though. Well got prescribed today. Think this post was my initial concern. This office saw me following month then out me on testosterone gel end of April I believe. Then in May they gave me a penile Doppler image test then two weeks we are here. She did give me a 2weeks supply.
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Old Jun 08, 2018, 08:06 PM
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Now to find the lady lol
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Old Jun 09, 2018, 10:35 AM
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At least you are enjoying a party. The pity party.
This is my last and final suggestion: take a break from posting the same sad story over and over again.
If you can't get a woman, get a hobby. Self pity will take you nowhere, as you must have noticed by now.
I’m sorry man, I was not looking for pity.
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