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Sep 12, 2018, 10:10 PM
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She broke it off over messenger, "I can't be your friend anymore. My boyfriend found out."
The f-----? We were only friends, I thought. I did get flirty sometimes and so did she but I get flirty with everyone at some point, even guys as a joke, even though I have no intentions of ever sleeping with men nor attraction to men. She knew this going into the friendship and she seemed to enjoy it and even said she did. She sent the R-rated "pictures" unsolicited and I never did send those things back but sometimes did send PG-rated ones. I think sending d---pics is wrong. It shows disrespect IMO. Maybe being flirty is wrong too? I know this is somehow related to my illnesses and conditions but mostly it's that I'm a horrible friend. I officially loathe myself again. I probably won't post here for a while because I'll probably be missing the point of that too. |
 Movingon69, Nammu
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#2
Sep 12, 2018, 10:16 PM
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That's a really ****** way to break up a friendship. However I made my husband choose me or his best friend because he and she were writing things I felt crossed the line. The felt it was innocent.
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Sep 13, 2018, 04:57 AM
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I'm sorry you lost another friend.
(((((hugs)))) I know it's know concilation, but at least you were told about it. most of my friendships are ended by people avoiding me, not actually telling me directly- or if I am told, it's by a friend of that person |
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Sep 13, 2018, 04:59 AM
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Well, the R-rated pictures would have made her BF mad & upset, I should think, even if she was the one who sent them. I think you are right, being flirty to a point if you have no intentions of sleeping with someone and just being friends and only joking about it to a point. If she sent the pics unsolicited, IMO she was the one who did stuff that would break off her friendship with you and cause trouble with her BF if he found out, especially the pics.
I am sorry about the loss of your friendship though 
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Sep 13, 2018, 04:59 AM
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their's also my trust issues as well.
so I end friendships because I can't trust someone |
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Sep 13, 2018, 07:01 AM
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I suppose whom I should never trust is myself. I think I should stop opening up and trying and accept loneliness as karmic punishment for everything I've royally effed up when I knew better but bipolar chose anyway. I hate this life
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