[Fuzzybear]

Thirty four guests and one fuzzy bear

“So far away from me”

“I’ve been in the rain”

This feels like Groundhog Day.

I might not be the clearest person in my posts.. but when I talk in private I try to be clear. And I am a Caring Bear. Some have called me the Queen of Caring.

But today I wish I wasn’t on this planet. I can’t second guess everything I do and be there the minute someone wants me. . That doesn’t mean I don’t care

In fact in the past I’ve been accused of the opposite. A therapist said I’m “demanding” and these people are always right

My two “best friends” are sick

I can’t take meds
I can’t have pets
And I’m a “failure”

(Not about anyone on pc)

[downandlonely]

Sorry you're feeling this way Fuzzy.

((((Fuzzybear))))

Sending friendly vibes your way
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[Rohag]

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

...and be there the minute someone wants me.

A question neither intending to be adversarial nor needing an answer: Who, or what circumstances, inculcated in you a need to feel bad for not being immediately available to whoever wants your attention?

((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Rohag

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A question neither intending to be adversarial nor needing an answer: Who, or what circumstances, inculcated in you a need to feel bad for not being immediately available to whoever wants your attention?

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(((((((( Rohag ))))))))

I’m guessing it was both of the PUS (I don’t like saying it was the MU but maybe it was)

I was always only of any value if I was an “extension of them”

And I’ve had people in my life who have seemed to treat me similarly

[Wild Coyote]

You are a very caring bear!

You can care and still not be available to everyone, or anyone, at any time. You need time and energy to take care of yourself!


WC

[Moose72]

Fuzzy, i often wish i could have a dog but it would cost me extra rent and im busy enough that id have to go home totake the dog out. I dunno. I really want a retired greyhound but they need big open areas to run and i live in an apartment. I also would like a chihuahua - sigh....

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Wild Coyote

You are a very caring bear!

You can care and still not be available to everyone, or anyone, at any time. You need time and energy to take care of yourself!


WC

Thanks Wild Coyote ... it’s not possible for any human or bear to be available at all times .. sometimes, like many I’m guessing, I have many messages that want or need my attention, other times it feels like nobody is there.

And if I miss some messages it’s because I, too, am human and make mistakes.

I am also punished regularly for even the smallest mistakes. I don’t have an infinite ability as an empath.. sometimes I’m not perfect

Hugs to all