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Old Oct 29, 2018, 02:21 PM
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am I alone in finding that when someone says something like

Yzy .. but .. Cba

It might help some

But

It usually doesn’t help me

This isn’t intended to be adversarial or hurtful to anyone, it’s just my feeling. And it’s not universally applicable.

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Also re another post (of mine) I’d prefer it if my friends thought of Observe Describe Participate (or any other tool which might help with feeling rejected by me etc when I’m not being rejecting. And in fact I am looking forward to speaking to them again but then I’m blocked because I don’t reply soon enough? Again this is not intended to be adversarial or hurtful to anyone. It’s kind of something I personally learnt “the hard way” as I learnt so many “life lessons”

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Old Oct 29, 2018, 02:38 PM
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Old Oct 29, 2018, 03:28 PM
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If someone blocks you then you don’t need them in your life.
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Old Oct 29, 2018, 03:57 PM
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"Friends" will give you all of the time you need to respond.

I have also learned that a few members have blocked me. I trigger them somehow, even though I don't know how I do that for them.

Blocking me is clearly their own choice. I'd welcome feedback as to why/how they are triggered by me; yet, they are not so inclined. So be it! I can only be me!

I agree with ~Christina, if someone blocks you try not to take it too personally. We all have struggles. If someone circumvents me/my posts, they are choosing to avoid me, not vice versa! I can thrive here at PC w/o messing with anyone wanting to avoid me. You can, too!

It can feel very personal. Yet, the triggers really come from our past. Usually something in our past creates a trigger. So the real trigger is not you per se.

You are very caring. I am sure you don't like being blocked and wonder why you are blocked? Me, too!

When people want to "go," as in blocking others, we simply need to let them go, according to their own wishes. This also frees you to be "just as you are" or "as is!" Don't ever change to suit others. Be your very valuable, huggable, love-filled self!

Much Love to You Always!


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Old Oct 29, 2018, 04:23 PM
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Old Oct 29, 2018, 04:26 PM
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Old Oct 29, 2018, 04:40 PM
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Sorry Fuzzy and plenty of warm hugs to you
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