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#1
Dec 29, 2018, 05:52 PM
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People make new year resolutions
Can you think / look / plan for the entire year
for me it is more like the next weekday
weekends are a little better
but a whole year
never
Just wondering if I am in the majority or minority not that I dont dream I just dont believe in putting my head in the sand Sorry if I sound like a downer but I know it is unlikely that my meds will not change and my coping skills come and go just like the weather Lately my physical aches and pains are increasing a lot add emotional stuff at work and else where plus the anger , and self esteam issues just makes me feel this coming year wont be any better than this year sorry , holidays are allows tough for me I know I am early but happy new years Tigger |
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#2
Dec 29, 2018, 06:03 PM
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Best wishes that 2019 is a good year for you.
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| wiretwister
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#3
Dec 29, 2018, 07:34 PM
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Hope you have a better new year, Tigger.
Actually, I hope we all do.
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| wiretwister
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#4
Dec 29, 2018, 08:24 PM
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Thanks, happy new year.......just take the year one day at a time, trite saying maybe, but true
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| wiretwister
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#5
Dec 30, 2018, 01:13 AM
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Think/look/plan for an entire year?
No way. Me neither. I'm pretty much just in the moment. Maybe a day or a week, but goals, not so much. Vague at best. I do hope you have a better upcoming year, Tigger.
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| BipolaRNurse, wiretwister
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#6
Dec 30, 2018, 03:25 AM
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It can be a downer to have unrealistic goals too (once the mania ends and you come back to reality) so maybe not such a bad strategy. Your posts are never a downer.
 Hope you enjoy more good days (were the aches and pains aren't that bad) in 2019. Happy New Year Tigger! 
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| wiretwister
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#7
Dec 30, 2018, 06:10 AM
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Quote:
I hate the idea of "planning", in case it all falls through and then I'm left feeling like I've failed. sometimes even living day by day is too much for me and I have to live minit by minit. sometimes it's the best way.. because you're garanteed what you set out to do. as for this year, well I don't hold much hope for it being a good year for one I don't currently do anything with my life (or even know what I want too do) for another I still don't have medication that works and thirdly.. the last time I had a sort of deecent year I was 8 so over 20 years ago for me it's a bit like groundhog day (or in this case groundhog year) the only thing that changes as far as it goes for me is the number of the year. |
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| BipolaRNurse, wiretwister
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Dec 30, 2018, 09:37 PM
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Thanks Tigger, same to 'ya.
I have a friend in the hospital, really really delicate, and I forgot today was my anniversary. I promised to visit him tomorrow (4 hrs away), and he remainded me tomorrow is new year's eve. And told me not to go. That aware I am of what surrounds me. Of course, being retired helps. Cheers.
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