My psychiatrist at the time of first diagnosis talked to my dad who said "she gets really hyper then upset" and I guess that was enough to change my dx to bipolar, and I feel my doctors after just went along with it. Now what my dad said is true, but doesn't everyone have changes in mood and emotion? Where is the line between being human and having a disorder?

[Blue_Bird]

If your psychiatrist has been seeing you awhile they probably have seen you in different mood states. If you're unsure, ask them for their reasoning behind it. Also, the line between being human and disorder isn't exactly clear, it depends on how something is interfering in your life. Are mood episodes preventing you from doing things you're supposed to, or want to, or make it really difficult, etc. Does it bother you, or cause issues in other areas of your life, even if you're not aware of them (relationships, finances, etc) When you're diagnosed with a disorder you usually need to meet some sort of criteria in the DSM.

I hope you're able to find some clarity, there's nothing wrong with getting a second opinion too if you ever feel it's needed.

[Aurelius710]

Originally Posted by spikes

Now what my dad said is true, but doesn't everyone have changes in mood and emotion? Where is the line between being human and having a disorder?

In short, when those mood changes are cyclical, unstable and possibly seasonal over time, it's probably a disorder. Sometimes we can't see it because of... well... the disorder.

If you're unsure because of your dads statements when you were first diagnosed, I would ask other people (friends, family, therapist) about it. "Do you think I'm bipolar and if so, why?" It might help you find clarity on your condition or give voice to a need for a second opinion.

I agree with Blue_Bird that the key question is: does it impact your functionality? Are you able to work or study and maintain healthy relationships over time? Can you sleep regularly? How is your basic hygiene? Can you maintain a healthy weight? If you're living a full and active life i don't see mood activity as a problem. If it is interfering with basic functions, then it is something that needs to be addressed.