[Jm2310]

I am so tired of people who make bad decisions and then blame their situation on someone else! Everybody makes mistakes but nobody wants to own their mistakes.

I am so tired of people being so easily offended. I am tired of having to sugar coat everything I say because I might hurt someones feelings. I'm not good at sugar coating, I'm blunt and to the point.

I am so tired of people expecting me to control myself at all times when other people feel they don't have to do the same. Other people think it's ok to say anything and everything they feel, regardless how it may make me feel. I try very hard to consider other peoples feeling before I say things, I think that is one of my best qualities, even though it's exhausting.

I am so tired of people expecting me to be there for them at any given time but nobody is here for me when I need them.

I am so tired of people expecting my meds to "cure" me. I have Bipolar Disorder, it isn't curable. I deal with it the best I can and that's all I can do. And I must say I do a pretty good job of not letting it hurt other people.

I am so tired of people expecting me to check on them all the time, to make sure they are doing well. I am drowning here and nobody ever bothers to check on me.

I am so tired of people expecting me to be the one to reach out and connect. I am not capable of doing that all the time. I wish someone would reach out to me once and a while.

I am just so tired of people!!

It is very hard when things are one sided-- you hold all the responsibility in all parts of your life and others don't have to be held to the same standard. I once was literally told I would be fired if I didn't smile more. I had to force a smile through intense depression , while others got to act out, yell, be hateful and not smile. It drove me crazy.


That's just one example in one aspect of my life -- so when it consumes all parts, it's unbearable at times. I'm sorry you're going through that -- I am tired people too. I hope you get a break from all that and have a way to decompress-- maybe this thread helped you do that? In any respect , I hope you feel better.

[Jm2310]

Posting here definitely helps, it seems people here understand when nobody else does.

[sarahsweets]

PREACH sister!

Originally Posted by Jm2310

I am so tired of people who make bad decisions and then blame their situation on someone else! Everybody makes mistakes but nobody wants to own their mistakes.

I am so tired of people being so easily offended. I am tired of having to sugar coat everything I say because I might hurt someones feelings. I'm not good at sugar coating, I'm blunt and to the point.

I am so tired of people expecting me to control myself at all times when other people feel they don't have to do the same. Other people think it's ok to say anything and everything they feel, regardless how it may make me feel. I try very hard to consider other peoples feeling before I say things, I think that is one of my best qualities, even though it's exhausting.

I am so tired of people expecting me to be there for them at any given time but nobody is here for me when I need them.

I am so tired of people expecting my meds to "cure" me. I have Bipolar Disorder, it isn't curable. I deal with it the best I can and that's all I can do. And I must say I do a pretty good job of not letting it hurt other people.

I am so tired of people expecting me to check on them all the time, to make sure they are doing well. I am drowning here and nobody ever bothers to check on me.

I am so tired of people expecting me to be the one to reach out and connect. I am not capable of doing that all the time. I wish someone would reach out to me once and a while.

I am just so tired of people!!

[winter loneliness]

I agree completely.

[BipolaRNurse]

I get it. I really do. I have a couple of people in my life who are the same way---all take and no give. I'm in a depressive phase right now, and do you think they could be bothered to check up on me once in awhile? Hell no! I always have to look in on them and make sure they have everything they need and be available when they have to go somewhere, or just someone to vent all their anger at. Well, where are they when I need to vent? It's very frustrating. You have my sympathies.

[MickeyCheeky]

I hear you, Jm2310. Some people just don't understand how hard it is to struggle with Bipolar or MI It's really hard when it happens. I'm so sorry. I'm glad PC exists. It allows us to meet with people who can finaly understand. Unfortunately it's hard to meet this kind of people IRL. But we have to keep fighting against ignorance and prejudice. I hope you'll be able to meet better, kinder people in your life who will truly love you and accept you for who you truly are. It won't be easy, but it's not impossible. I hope you'll feel better soon. We're here for you if you need to talk about it. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this

[FriendlyJoe]

Originally Posted by Jm2310

I am so tired of people who make bad decisions and then blame their situation on someone else! Everybody makes mistakes but nobody wants to own their mistakes.


I am so tired of people being so easily offended. I am tired of having to sugar coat everything I say because I might hurt someones feelings. I'm not good at sugar coating, I'm blunt and to the point.


I am so tired of people expecting me to control myself at all times when other people feel they don't have to do the same. Other people think it's ok to say anything and everything they feel, regardless how it may make me feel. I try very hard to consider other peoples feeling before I say things, I think that is one of my best qualities, even though it's exhausting.


I am so tired of people expecting me to be there for them at any given time but nobody is here for me when I need them.


I am so tired of people expecting my meds to "cure" me. I have Bipolar Disorder, it isn't curable. I deal with it the best I can and that's all I can do. And I must say I do a pretty good job of not letting it hurt other people.


I am so tired of people expecting me to check on them all the time, to make sure they are doing well. I am drowning here and nobody ever bothers to check on me.


I am so tired of people expecting me to be the one to reach out and connect. I am not capable of doing that all the time. I wish someone would reach out to me once and a while.


I am just so tired of people!!

I'm feeling that right now. I'm pissed off and just sick of everything and everyone. I'm trying to figure out what the heck I'm going to do right now. I hate coming home because it's boring and I have no friends. But I don't want friends because it's exhausting to blend in with everyone and I'm easily annoyed by stupidity.

[~Christina]

I hear ya !!!! I get so mad/sad over it.

Thank goodness for PC !!!!