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Apr 19, 2020, 02:23 PM
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This happened on Friday and I don't I think it's a good thing.
An ex got back in touch we went out 10 years ago. He's now married and has been for 4 years. His life has done a 360 for the best and I'm genuinely happy for him. He added me as a friend on fb and then to messenger and messaged me. He put kisses at end of message I didn't reciprocate that. But I did say hello etc. I said congrats on the marriage and how long has it been etc. He said he thought of me that night while watching Phantom Of The Opera.... no idea why I can't think. I just don't have a memory before medicated what my life was like or what I was like back then |
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#2
Apr 19, 2020, 02:33 PM
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I think it’s a good thing that you did not reciprocate with the kisses on the end of the message. A former “boyfriend” of mine came around to our house less than a year after I had married Papa bear. Unannounced. He said how well and beautiful I was looking... and said “please come back to me” ..WTF
Please be careful. You do not know where some of these people have been  
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| *Beth*, BipolaRNurse, bpcyclist, Miss Laura, Rick7892
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#3
Apr 20, 2020, 12:53 AM
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He is hitting on you.
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Apr 20, 2020, 01:00 AM
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Yeah? I'm nothing special at all. Like I'm seriously not. I'm not a good looker or anything. Why would anyone want me. Its baffling me to no end.
Maybe I'm over thinking this he has a Wife for God sake he married her 4 years ago. Reading back on our messages last night I was so high at the time of us talking and going out we only lasted a month may I add. I don't recall how it ended there is no written proof ie on messenger. He hasn't spoken since Friday night. Maybe it was a one off |
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Apr 20, 2020, 02:04 AM
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Bern up all night and been writing and reading some and writing more.... got to get the memories out before I forget. Trying to remember 4 years of my life I have little knowledge in, in my early 20's. How can this happen?
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Apr 20, 2020, 03:24 PM
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I often try to remember life pre-bipolar but with an eye on anything that couldve been symptoms back then before diagnosis. Its not easy.
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| Miss Laura, Rick7892
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#7
Apr 20, 2020, 08:42 PM
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Quote:
 We all forget stuff... The harder that I try to remember something, the harder it is to remember... Sometimes, but not always, putting a gentle question to myself before I go to bed and letting go of it results in a memory coming back in a day or so. If the memory comes, that's great. If not, it is OK... Others also forget..
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Apr 21, 2020, 10:07 AM
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Please be kind to yourself. Everyone forgets things and makes mistakes.
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