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#261
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could you refinance you house note to get a lower mortgage mote?I don't know what your financing percentage interest on your house not it may be that could be redone if interest rates are lower that what you have. bizi just throwing that out there. Do you have health insurance?That is probably the most important of all insurances.car and homeowners insurance are also mandatory. It must be hard to get by. (((((HUGS))))))) bizi __________________ 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night, 4-5 peri-colace for chronic constipation multi vit,, vit c, at noon, tumeric, caffeine at noon PRN Remeron 15mg at night, zyprexa10mg under tongue, requip2mg. |
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#262
I talked to my pdoc today. She says she still sees the depression but I think she sees the little improvement I've been feeling the last few days. She did say (and mark in my chart in bright blue) that from now on I'll be going on a higher dose of Emsam than my usual in January because this is the 2nd year in a row I've gotten depressed at the very same time.
My therapist also called me to check on me today which was very nice of him. He called before I was awake and I mostly mumbled answers at him but he called when he could and I really appreciate it; it was nice and he's never done that before in 17 years. I think that feeling good enough to post here is good. I've had so many times I've wanted to say something and just couldn't so maybe I'll feel like being supportive again soon. __________________ Bipolar 1, PTSD, GAD, OCD. Clozapine 250 mg, Emsam 12 mg/day patch, topamax 25 mg, ,Gabapentin 1700 mg & 100-2 PRN,. 1.5 mg clonazepam., 50 mg Seroquel |
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#263
Thanks, everyone, for the kind thoughts and prayers. My family was lucky that we at least had the chance to say goodbye to my dad. He passed away late last night Eastern time, in the US. I think he was happy with all that I said, which I prepared carefully beforehand. It was much different than when my mother died, about 18 years ago. With her, I was in total denial and frenzy.
My brother is still in the hospital. I need to talk to my sister about his condition, as yesterday the main focus was obviously on Dad. @Crazy Hitch, I don't think my call with my dad exceeded 15 minutes. I was lucky that it was a video call through WhatsApp, so he saw me and I saw him, thanks to my sister holding the phone. I'm sorry you had to say goodbye in such a way, too, but am glad you expressed what you wanted. @Scooter9, this closure was definitely more beneficial for me than my denial when my mother was passing. Thanks for sharing about this. @JaneOnceMore, that is a sweet coincidence regarding my screen name. I had almost forgotten that the anglicized spelling omits the "e" in the French "Soupe". @Samicat, what a sad end of March this is for us, because of the losses we will have endured. Yes, how sweet it would be to meet up with all of our lost loved ones in another place. However, what I said to my dad was that he will always be alive and with me while I'm still living, as well. In so many ways. Regarding the "@" feature, the challenge is to type the person's screen name exactly as it appears, including any spaces between words/names and the precise capitalized/lowercase letters. So, excluding the quote marks, mine would be "@Soupe du jour". I know the "e" after the soup part is confusing sometimes, as it is the French version rather than anglicized one. I did read everyone's posts and want to send hugs for all who also need support. @BeyondtheRainbow, it's good that your mental healthcare team are aware of your current depression struggle. Please stay safe. I hope spring will soon lift your moods. @bizi, I was listening to some jazz yesterday, thinking about my dad and his family. Dad loved Django Reinhardt's guitar playing. His family would have jazz music jam sessions when my paternal grandfather was still alive. Granddad ("Pop Pop") was a professional trombone player and also played guitar and most all other family members played an instrument, too. __________________ Dx: Bipolar type 1 Psych Medications: * Tegretol XR (carbamazepine ER) 800 mg * Lamictal (lamotrigine) 150 mg * Seroquel XR (quetiapine ER) 600 mg I also take meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, and tachycardia. Last edited by Soupe du jour; Mar 28, 2023 at 03:34 AM.. |
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#264
@Soupe du jour - okay let's see if this works. Thanks for instructions
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Indeed it did, @Samicat! Perfectly! __________________ Dx: Bipolar type 1 Psych Medications: * Tegretol XR (carbamazepine ER) 800 mg * Lamictal (lamotrigine) 150 mg * Seroquel XR (quetiapine ER) 600 mg I also take meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, and tachycardia. |
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#266
Up late because I forgot to take my meds earlier
Recently I discovered Stoic philosophy which is very different from what I'd thought and has been inspiring and helpful to me mentally. My favourite character on Star Trek when I was a child was Mr. Spock and I loved how he approached everything with logic, and this is a very Stoic idea. I don't want to get into what Stoicism is because anyone can get a definition, but one idea that struck home with me is that one must never react in anger, but pause and process before responding - respond rather than react. Stoicism isn't about suppressing emotions - it's about processing them. So with anger you may need to go for a walk, write in a journal, and/or wait until the next day, but respond with a cool head. The other idea that galvanized me is "The obstacle is the way," that one should not avoid worthy tasks or situations because they are difficult. The idea is that you're going to suffer anyway if you avoid them. The hardest tasks often yield the biggest rewards. This is so true for me, and since reading this I have gone to the gym 3 times a week, stuck to my healthy diet and worked on my novel every day. To a stoic, hard work is its own reward and you shouldn't rely on praise or acclaim from others. This is also helpful to me in writing my novel. I always worry if others will like my work. Now I know I don't have to. There are some amazing parallels between Stoicism and Buddhism, which is fascinating since I know of no historical connection. The ideas of stoicism are really helping my mood. If anyone is interested I recommend watching Ryan Holiday on YouTube or reading his books. But there are tons of articles and books by others also. |
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#267
@Soupe du jour Sorry to hear that your father has passed.
To all: Hope you are able to live your lives as good as possible! About me: It was a wise decision to take a break from the forum. For the time being I get easily distracted, so the less I need to think about, the better. But I haven't forgotten you! I feel sleepy almost all day along, but am able to do a tiny bit of housework every day. My shoulders and arms are in pain (and will be for the next months). I have canceled my appointment for the massage. May be I'll contact him when I come home from Spain. I do the exercises for my shoulders every day, so slowly, slowly they will become better.We have more snow. Am tired of the winter, but it cannot last so much longer now! Send prayers and good wishes your way! __________________ There is always hope ... |
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I found your post when I was going to log out. I cannot remember so much of stoicim from the time I was a student, but the way you explain it have some similarity with modern CBT. I think it is wise to leave Freud behind and find more practical ways to support us. From "The Decider" (uk. a simpifyed CBT approach): - "Somtimes we cannot see the light in the end, but it is there, and the only way to get through this tunnel and out on the other side, is to keep going." - If I am here, then I am not there (past) or there (future)! - "There is that DRIFT again (in thoughts)". "Pull it back to the here and now". "Do it". (...) From another CBT reference: - "The truth is I don't feel like it, but that doesn't have to get in my way. I can do things I dont want to do or feel like doing, simply by doing it" ...................................................... Inside the CBT approach one often uses Mindfulness to relax. Mindfulness is part of Buddhism. I wish you luck with your methods! (Now I have to go and take care of my own needs with the little energy I have! ) __________________ There is always hope ... |
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#269
Yesterday was an incredibly busy and productive day! I had about a dozen things on my to do list and accomplished all but two. Most involved getting lithium levels (and other labs) done for my PsychNP, setting up nearly a half dozen medical appointments with various specialists in the next two months and dealing with some medical grade BS.
Of note: The dental clinic who looked at my broken tooth last week still doesn't have an extractor coming in for at least a month. The antibiotics they gave me cleared up the infection at least, but I don't like having 1/3 to 1/2 of a tooth sitting in my mouth unaddressed. What's worse, the clinic who's number they gave me to call runs off of a lottery system essentially. I'm supposed to call them in an hour (with presumably loads of other people doing the same thing) and hope to be given one of ten slots for the day. It's worse on the weekends. There, I have to physically show up at the clinic at 7am and hope to be given one of fifteen slots. Ah, America! The other bit of fun revolves around my Colestipol being out at the factory for the second time this year and leaving me scrambling for any pharmacy that could dispense it. Of course, my Colestipol (taken to deal with the GI symptoms of bile dumping after me gallbladder was removed) is the med that keeps me most functional in my day to day. I did a lot of leg work and managed to secure a week of meds from my current pharmacy and a pharmacy the next town over that had a proper month of stock. I just have to pick it up. Today consists of some big early morning stuff! I've got the "dental lottery" phone call coming soon. Here's hoping I get a spot! I've also got a consult regarding the synovial cyst in my neck in around three hours, and I've got to pick up my Colestipol before the end of the day. Finally, I'm going to look in a new internet provider that might save me $30+ a month! Last but not least, I found my Sophie-cat had set up some... unusual sleeping arrangements last night. It was too sweet not to share! __________________ "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." -Litany Against Fear (Dune) |
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#270
@Soupe du jour I'm so sorry about the loss of your dad, but I'm glad you had the chance to say goodbye. To have a measure of closure and peace.
As for your brother, it sounds like he's between the devil and the deep blue sea as they say in my neck of the woods. I hope the doctors find clarity on what causing his troubles. Take care. __________________ "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." -Litany Against Fear (Dune) |
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#271
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I always liked that quote from the Meditations. I felt it summed up Stoicism quite well. For me, it's always been about balance, letting the trials and tribulations of my life come to me, seeing them for what they are and letting the wave wash over me without being jostled and thrown and broken. Knowing that the essence of me (my soul, if you will) cannot be touched. Stoicism helped inform my worldview in many ways. I hope it helps you as well. __________________ "I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." -Litany Against Fear (Dune) |
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#272
Oh geez this suddenly cold
Snap has Got my knee Aching __________________ Bipolar 1 w/psychotic features or schizoaffective bipolar type PTSD generalized anxiety OCD celexa, prazosin, Lybalvi and prn zyprexa and klonopin |
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#273
__________________ Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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#274
So sorry that your father passed away @Soupe du jour. It's good that you got to see him, and he see you. It was nice that you said that he'll live on with you; I'm sure that gave him comfort in his last moments.
__________________ * Dx: Unspecified Bipolar and Related Disorder * Rx: Remeron, Prozac, Klonopin, Vraylar My avatar picture is a photo of the Whirlpool Galaxy I took in April 2023. I dedicated this photo to my sister who passed away in July 2016. |
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#275
Thanks again for all of the condolences, friends!
I must admit that all of the grief is knocking me off balance, mood-wise. I'm trying to stay level. Been taking Ativan a lot to curb agitation and anxiety and also for sleep. Six hundred milligrams Seroquel is not quite enough right now. Where I used to have likely called my old US psychiatrist and one in Brno, during such a time, I have no desire to contact my new one. If my moods worsen, I will. I talked to my brother this morning and his situation is looking very grim. @Aurelius710, yes he is indeed "between the devil and the deep blue sea". He's a little bit in denial about the possibility ahead. I suppose I'm glad. His current psychosis and all of the morphine they give him add to that denial. He is trying to refuse an important MRI. Truth is, it will likely show a very depressing truth. They delayed trying to give it yesterday when they learned our father was dying. The cancer may have spread to his brain, as well as being in many other places. We fear he will not make it home. My sister and I are obviously in our own type of agony, trying to be strong. What happened to my family? So many gone. We were a small enough family as it was. We WILL finally move to our new home this Friday. Will! So I did some more packing. As usual, I'm not too far done. Hubby, on the other hand, seems to have barely started. I did all of the kitchen pantry packing, and my clothes, save three days worth. Only really the fridge and freezer stuff is left, which I'll obviously do last minute. Then there is unpacking. Blank walls, at first. Everything in boxes. Feeling strange in a new place. __________________ Dx: Bipolar type 1 Psych Medications: * Tegretol XR (carbamazepine ER) 800 mg * Lamictal (lamotrigine) 150 mg * Seroquel XR (quetiapine ER) 600 mg I also take meds for blood pressure, cholesterol, and tachycardia. |
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#276
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__________________ Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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#278
@Soupe du jour:
So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. At least you got to say goodbye. Sorry also about your brother's dire plight. It's certainly a difficult time for you. |
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#279
So sorry for your loss Soupe and prayers for you and your family/brother
Sent from my M8L using Tapatalk __________________ R.I.P mom 8/6/55-1/15/16 “All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.” -St. Francis of Assisi
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#280
2nd day of the volunteer job was today. It went well. There was a pair of big elderly Himalayan cats there. They were beautiful and so sweet. One had a lions cut. All the cats there are so cute. Cowboy wasn't there today so that must mean he got adopted. I'm glad, he was such a cool and friendly cat. Anyway I'm loving this volunteer job and am excited to keep doing it
Sent from my M8L using Tapatalk __________________ R.I.P mom 8/6/55-1/15/16 “All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.” -St. Francis of Assisi
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