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Manarinorange · Jul 14, 2024, 02:37 AM

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Originally Posted by bizi

Have you been able to talk to him since he is in a group home?
It does sound like he is better.
I know you love him and miss seeing him.
Do you have visitation rights like during the day for an hour or so??
bizi

Yes we can see each other. He can do overnight visits but last time we did that we had the chair incident. We talk on the phone all the time. He comes out here on the bus bc I get horribly anxious driving to that part of town. I usually give him some money and get him something to eat bc he doesn't like the food I have here bc I'm trying to lose weight and he doesn't like the food I have.

Manarinorange · Jul 14, 2024, 02:38 AM

Well he is being moved to a different facility. He went off on a patient where he live

Manarinorange · Jul 14, 2024, 02:43 AM

Well he is moving to a different facility bc he went off on another resident there. At first he wasn't taking any responsibility, but today he admitted he needs therapy for his anger and impulsively. So that's good. It's just so hard and tiresome. I've been dealing with his anger and psychotic breaks for 9 years now. I love him so much, but I'm worn out!

bizi · Jul 14, 2024, 10:47 AM

It sounds exhausting.
You love him for sure!
bizi

Manarinorange · Jul 14, 2024, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

I wonder if you could see him in a public place on a neutral territory? Rather than having him at your place. Meeting him for short outing/meal with other people around? Might be safer that way. Keep get togethers short.

I hope he gets better and stays on his meds

Yeah, but he can just come here on a visit. I'm not worried about day visits. It's overnights we can't do. I feel safe on just the day visits.