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So Victoria is moving out. So we're going to have to move. We're thinking about moving several hours away to a condo but we need to improve our credit a little. We're making moves to get off assistance. Including going to school and starting a business. It's a two year plan. I'm working 4 hours a day on school work. I'm not under the impression that I can work full time or non-remote. Hell I can't take the bus by myself. I'm really concerned the stress will make my symptoms worse.
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i understand your concerns. im worried about working full time too
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I'm worried about the future, too. Like many long-time homeowners, we'd pay more for housing if we move, even if we downsize to a 1 BR apartment from a sprawling 3 BR ranch on a park-like setting. Sure we'd get some equity from the deal, I suppose.
Even more worrisome is the cost of my wife's health care. We've been reaching the insurance plan's maximum out-of-pocket. Add to that dental care. And add my daughter's student loan payment and the payment for the Parent Plus loan I took out. __________________ Major Depressive Disorder; Sleep Apnea; possibly on the spectrum Nuvigil 50mg; Effexor 37.5mg Wellbutrin 100mg; meds for blood pressure & cholesterol |
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I don't know much about how Sec. 8 works (I think you have it?) but where I worked in home health there were several apartment complexes for Sec 8 that were extremely nice. I remember one in particular that was set up for people with impaired mobility; it even had a built in wood shower chair with an accessible shower. That one was super nice but there were a couple others I remember that were quite accessible.
I don't know if that is available elsewhere but if you could find it it sounds like it would really help you. __________________ Bipolar 1, PTSD, GAD, OCD. Clozapine 250 mg, Emsam 12 mg/day patch, topamax 25 mg, ,Gabapentin 1700 mg & 100-2 PRN,. 1.5 mg clonazepam., 50 mg Seroquel |
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We're trying to get a mobility unit but it's a condo but if working works out enough that we get of section 8 then things bomb it's a ten year waiting list to get back on.
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So I found out that the certificate I'm doing won't transfer. I was hoping at least one class language is hard for me today. I filled out the school disability form and I was like can I really do this.
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I'm really questioning our ability to do this but I really want to succeed.
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I wish I could help out more, but honestly I'm in the similar boat of "I want to do x, but shoving all idealism aside, can I?"
I kinda hate the fact that I'm expected to do more than survive the day and plan for winter. I do find stress and having a schedule with limited flexibility makes my symptoms worse. There's so much in the air right now and not a lot of predictability; it's hard to commit to something (for me anyway). __________________ [Insert thought-provoking and comedic quote here] |
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So I made a doable 2-3 year plan . Which ends with me having an MBA and master's degree. I don't know if I can work my pregame is 6-10 months. So I'm not risking anything until then. After that I have a semester and if I don't finish in that semester which if I'm going advantage pace I should but if I don't I can apply for scholarships while trying to figure out 1 more semester. After that I'll apply internationally for my MBA and master's which takes a year but can be extended to a year and a half. Once I get my degrees I'll start applying for a remote associate ux project manager which will lift us out of poverty.. My husband is doing the same with web development project management. He should get done almost a year before me.
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I'm still concerned because my therapist doesn't want me to do it. She wants me to relax. She says that is to much stress for me. I told her I'm taking it one step at a time. The first 2 steps can take as long as they take. It's the 3rd step I may have to find money for and risk my disability. My pdoc wants me to spend time resting too. Neither wants me off disability but I don't know how to get my needs met on disability. H just wants me to stop talking about all this and do my current class. He wants me to take one class at a time.
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You don’t need MBA AND masters because MBA already IS masters degree in business administration.
It’s not a required degree and frankly you can be just fine without it. Masters degree will cost you a ton of money. Why would you apply internationally? You mean you’d study on a foreign country? It would cost you even more. I’d see if there are careers with associate or the most bachelor degree or maybe just a certificate program. If you are not sure about working full time, then it might be a mistake getting all these degrees. There are very few, if any scholarships for non traditional students. I’d not count on that. Are there any disability vocational services you are involved in? They’d help you to narrow down your choices. And in my state if you are on SSI they’ll pay community college tuition. Maybe you have that in your state. School will cost you nothing |
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I don't succeed at community college. I tried 5 times. I'm taking a competency bachelor's which will let me transfer 90 credits in from Sophia, study . Com, Coursera and other places.
Coursera courses (transfer in as 3-18 credits) cost $60 a month. But several are free through our local library. When I get done with that I'll take $300 and finish my gen. Ed classes at Sophia. So about $420 and 6 months I'll have the rest of my 90 credits. Then I'll have 4 months to finish the 10 classes before I run out of aid and have to apply for scholarships or pay $1700 for 8 more weeks. The international school I plan to go to is well under $1k with scholarship for both degrees and it takes a year to complete. So I'll be spending under $1k to 3k for all the degrees. It's a regionally accredited state school that runs this program. My husband is doing the same but he already has his gen Ed. So he'll be paying like $2k at most. I'm taking my disabilities into account as well as my interests and building a future that provides enough income for the area I live. No community college degree that I can do will provide enough in my area. Most bachelor's won't either because I need part time and remote. I'm not going to sell myself short because of what others say I'm capable of. If I listened to them I wouldn't be walking. I can't afford to just make barely over $1550/month when mobility units are going at over $4k a month. And care professionals are $30 hr. I have to make money and education is the only way. __________________ Dx: Me- SzA Husband- Bipolar 1 Daughter- mood disorder+ Comfortable broken and happy "So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk My blog |
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