[Rachie]

Sorry if im being silly i just get the feeling that i dont think people like me on here and im wasting their time. I dont think i give out very good advice. I hope im just being paranoid cos 4 really do love everyone here, i hope im not annoying but if i am ill leave i dont want to upset anyone

[Melbadaze]

Rachie .

[Fuzzybear]

I like you ....

[JayS]

((((((Rachie))))))

Pleas don't leave, I really do like you, you are my friend too.

I know exactly how you feel because I feel that way too, but I think it is the BPD making us think that, I made a similar post a while ago and everyone replied saying that they like me and want me to stay, it made me very happy but I still feel like no one wants me. And I know that I don't give any good advice, but that's because I've only just started to try and heal myself, so I have no advice to give yet. But I have seen you say some great stuff, I think you have a lot to share.

But please don't leave, I want you to stay, I think you are a great person.

[paddym22]

Rachie

Gosh where did that thought come from????????

You are a very valid member of the BPD forum, and we ALL stick together and you are very much a mover and shaker here in this forum.

Now get back to posting and tell us more about yourself.


Paddy

[Fuzzybear]

I'm glad Rachie that you are able to express this, it seems a huge failing of mine that however hard I try that is impossible for me.

[Rachie]

Im sorry guys when ive been left alone for too long i begin to think nobody likes me anymore dont mind me im just a sook! Thanks heaps everyone, you's have all made me feel heaps better

[JayS]

Originally Posted by Rachie

Im sorry guys when ive been left alone for too long i begin to think nobody likes me anymore dont mind me im just a sook! Thanks heaps everyone, you's have all made me feel heaps better

Rachie, you are not a sook, everyone needs to feel wanted so in no way does that make you a crybaby at all... you should reach out for help or anything you need at anytime, just remember that we care for you, I care for you and you are not alone.

[Michah]

Ahhh my sweet, you worry unnecessarily! How you feel is never wrong, but the reality is that you do contribute and share and console......

Never question your place here, my dear.......your place is always at this table, and will be for as long as you wish to sit here. You are much loved and cherished.......and you need not say a thing........your spirit is enough......

You take care, babe.......we shall always seek you at your seat, to calmly see that you are there and sharing this journey, no matter what you contribute.

In stillness.......

Michah

[Rachie]

((((((((((jay & michah)))))))))) Thanks guys you's always know how to make me feel better

much love, Rachelle

[BrokenNBeautiful]

yes, we all need those strokes.

I have learned that I have to love myself, but I still don't so I need it from others right now. I understand how that feels.

I also appreciate the other posts here because I feel, again, that borderlines are so misunderstood in this world. We are sensitive, not bad people because we are.

Billi

[Rachie]

I wish i could love myself but its hard to try when you dont like anything about yourself

i too really appreciate the posts here, its good to know that wour not the only person dealing with certain things in life. I am yet to meet a person irl that suffers from apd, im only new to the whole bpd thing, i was diagnosed 2months ago and before that i had never even heard of it. I hate hearing about people with mental illness being discriminated against, its not like we chose to be the way we are! And i agree to that borderlines are misunderstood, if only 'normal' people could live in our shoes for a day, maybe then they wouldnt be so critical all the time