[sewsweetie28]

I don't seem to have any close and true friends. Everyone seems to only come around when they need something or when their other friends are not around. I get really lonley and start to feel worthless to anyone but my kids. Even my supposed best friend has not called me or returned my phone calls in a week and did not involve me in her wedding at all. I just feel rejected and liek there are no real women out there who can be a true friend. Does anyone else seem to have these feelings towards thier friends? Is this a BPD thing or am I jsut involved with the wrong people?

[phipps88fan]

Hi there, I seem to have the same problems you have when it comes to friends. I don't think I've ever had a honest true friend except for one and now she lives about 2000 miles away. I really don't know if it's a BPD thing but it kind of feels like it. I end up feeling the way you do....like I'm not worthy of the other peoples time or friendship, or it's like they are doing me a "favor" to take the time to talk to me. I know I have very low self-esteem but we need to remember that we are just as good as anyone else out there. I also get extremely lonely and having panic attacks with agoraphobia it doesn't make for a great first impression. You are far from alone with this problem.

[sewsweetie28]

Thanks! sometimes I feel so alone, like I am the only one who has trouble making true friends! THnak you for taking the time to respond, I totally feel the same way you do when it comes to all of this!