[clouds_and_sun]

I was wondering how you deal with when others leave you out?
When it seems that others don't care about you and they care about others feelings another words totally ignoring you?
Do you feel depressed? Angry? and how do you cope with it?
For me I feel extremely depressed and question my existence on earth.
I already suffer from a low self-esteem, I have been outcasted almost all my life and my parents emotionally neglected me.

[confused43]

I feel sad. but it isn't really that big of deal because i am not a social butterfly and get myself involved w/thins. i also realize i don't have to see those people faces all the time.

[Chronic]

I feel hurt and sad and angry. I hate them AND myself. They turn into the worst person ever and I think of ways that I can hurt them back. But I usually avoid them. And then when they smile at me all is forgiven

[bpd2]

I feel hurt, sad, ashamed, and I wonder what I did/said/didn't do/didn't say, if they've blocked me (and I won't even try emailing, just in case it's really true--because never ask a question you're afraid of the answer to.....), I hate myself for not being the first one to try to "fix" it if I 've been the one who neglected them first--because I know they'll never trust me again, so why bother. I withdraw from everything....sometimes for a LONG, long time...but then I wax philosophical (eventually), and I call them out of the blue, impulsively, set up an extravagant date, hate getting ready to go, put it off until the last minute, and am sulky and irritable when I get there. I decide I don't like them, anyway--because they're shallow and self-centered and don't care how much effort and pain it took for me to get there--they don't even act like they get it! They didn't read my mind! And they're not picking it up from how I'm acting. So f... them. And I go home and eat a lot of chocolate. And I'm flippant in any conversation with potential friends after that, because they're probably a--holes, too.
For real.

[smileytown]

I hide in my room and cut off almost all of my friends until I am so lonely that I call them again.

Some people do ignore me and to me its a relief lol I have them on ignore too...

Seriously it does not affect me too much unless I am sure I have done nothing to upset them then I will approach them and ask them if I have. Normally its in my head and they reply that no I have not upset them and all is fine they are not ignoring me.

[Gulchenrouz]

not wanting to "fit in" in the first place helps somewhat, IRL we don't socialize so why should online be any different.

Im grateful to be ignored...figuring that it is someone I don't enjoy bantering with to begin with.Just makes it easier than bs small talk.While I love people...there are those;for each person,with whom you just do not fit.That's life right?It's completely comfortable for me.

[morning_view]

When I feel like I'm being ignored, I don't always behave the same way - something I ignore the feeling of being ignored by pretending I'm not, or I get angry and lash out... neither of which seems to help

..... I'm feeling this way a lot at the moment - more in the way that I feel that I had the attention of someone, and then then they suddenly ignore me in favour of someone else - which makes me feel horrible... at the moment I seem to be coping with that by being irritable and angry, and sulking in my room and self-indulging in music and films....

M_V xx

[kitty004567]

I get hurt and angry and sulk. Then I usually ignore them too...unless they make an effort to contact/talk to me. Yeah, it's probably not the best coping mechanism in the world but it sure told me who my real friends are.