[I'mNotReal]

I’ve been feeling like **** for days and days. I need help but I’m not sure what kind of help I’m looking for. I feel extremely lonely. I’ve been trying to contact some of my “friends” but they either tell me that we sometimes need to deal with our loneliness or don’t reply me which makes me feel even lonelier and rejected and abandoned and unloved. I keep sending messages and checking my inbox every 5 minutes just to find out that no one cares enough to say “I love you. I hear you.” Then I turned to get online help. I searched and searched until finally got here. Help me

[dirt69juggalo]

i know how the loneliness can get to you your not alone there. i wish i could offer some insightful words but as im suffering real bad from the same thing my advice isnt what you need. i just posted so you know someone has read your thread and lets hope someone comes in here with some help for the both of us.

[Trippin2.0]

My heart goes out to both of you!!! I've been there, and Lord only knows how i survived. Please keep on keeping on, it does get better. Hugs to you both. XOXO ( Sorry i don't have any advice...)

[alwaysrejoice]

Once when I was lonely I went to a class at a store. maybe there are some support groups in your area?

[mcmommy5]

If you belong to a church maybe you could talk to the Pastor/Priest. If that is not an option have you ever thought about calling about calling the Suicide Hotline. Believe me it is better than not having anyone at all. In the town you are from the local Counseling Center has to have self help groups is it possible you could call there and inquire and see if they have anything that might be of interest so you could get out and be around other people and learn some good self help skills?

[Fit1]

My only suggestion is don't go to bars or clubs just to surround yourself with people, for me it has only led to more problems. I think there is some truth to learning how to deal with our loneliness. Problem for me has been when I am alone, I become self-destructive. Wish I had more advice other than do not be dependent on others during times of loneliness...easier said than done I know.

Fit1

[I'mNotReal]

I could go out and find someone to be with, someone to talk to. The problem is that I can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely because for some reason I can’t connect with them in a way or level I need to.
It's so hard for me to make and keep friends. I'm always complaining that I don't have friends. But I can't complain! I don't like people very much and most of the time I don't have any interest on them. They really bore me.
And then I have this sudden and strong feeling for someone I barely know. Not consciously, I choose someone to be “The One”. I get so happy, so happy to be with this person that everything seems to be perfect. I know I feel this good because “The One” can fulfill – for a while - the huge hole I have in my heart. I feel this… connection and then suddenly I’m attached to this person and s/he doesn’t even know how intense the relationship is for me.
I try to act normally for the person doesn’t be afraid of me or of getting too close (maybe fearing that I’m a freaky that will start to stalk him/her) and ends up leave me but in my head it is really obvious how crazy I am. So, if the person, for any reason, have to be apart I think it’s because s/he realizes how needy and insane I am and decided to leave me. Then I start sending messages and calling many times a day to avoid this and to check if I'm still important to the person. I keep trying desperately to contact the person.
I see me losing control of the situation and getting into the circle again but I can’t help it. Then I start to say that I’m sorry for doing this, that I’ll try to control myself but it’s soooooo hard.
I’m really ashamed of me…