[Forgive77]

http://gettinbetter.com/dance.html

Oaky this is the article that ticked us all off in August. I googled it as the posts are long gone now. This doctor is quacky...so....let it go when you read it. LOL

[Forgive77]

++++Be on alert...this will tick you off. She uses inflammatory language...and clearly hates her patients, and should have her license revoked for this article I think...but I think someone googled her, and she's a woman hater. Just try and get the dynamics of it....cause they are kinda true. ++++++

[chrysalis22]

reading now...

[chrysalis22]

Originally Posted by Forgive77

http://gettinbetter.com/dance.html

Oaky this is the article that ticked us all off in August. I googled it as the posts are long gone now. This doctor is quacky...so....let it go when you read it. LOL

i did not feel this at ALL during the entire article, honestly. and i am usually pretty sensitive and pick up very well on when people are talking ***** against BPD's or anyone, really. i related as a borderline to most of what she said about us and also about the narcissist as my father is one. and possibly my mother a tad w/ mix of the BPD if that is possible.

sorry you feel this woman is down about BPD's. i actually feel a lot of compassion for us, really. i think she is very very good at what she does. i think this actually is one of the best writings i've ever read on BPD...and narcissism too. thanks for posting this.

[Forgive77]

Originally Posted by chrysalis22

i did not feel this at ALL during the entire article, honestly. and i am usually pretty sensitive and pick up very well on when people are talking ***** against BPD's or anyone, really. i related as a borderline to most of what she said about us and also about the narcissist as my father is one. and possibly my mother a tad w/ mix of the BPD if that is possible.

sorry you feel this woman is down about BPD's. i actually feel a lot of compassion for us, really. i think she is very very good at what she does. i think this actually is one of the best writings i've ever read on BPD...and narcissism too. thanks for posting this.

I just now read it again...and it didn't bother me like it did the first time. I guess I completed my therapy..and it didn't but me...but the first time I was angry, and so was everyone else. It is very interesting. It's me and my husband. LOL

[Perna]

I think this is the previous/August thread?

http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=193314

[Forgive77]

Originally Posted by Perna

I think this is the previous/August thread?

http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=193314

Yes!!! How did you find it???!!! I couldn't find it!!

[Perna]

Click on your underlined name, choose "Find more posts by Forgive77" and then go back to like page 5-6 where the August ones are; they're all in date order.

[Forgive77]

Originally Posted by Perna

Click on your underlined name, choose "Find more posts by Forgive77" and then go back to like page 5-6 where the August ones are; they're all in date order.

Thanks! Wish I knew that before. I appreciate it...since it has come up again in posts!! The article didn't bother me this time....this time I thought it was insightful....I guess that's five months of therapy. LOL

Originally Posted by Forgive77

++++Be on alert...this will tick you off. She uses inflammatory language...and clearly hates her patients, and should have her license revoked for this article I think...but I think someone googled her, and she's a woman hater. Just try and get the dynamics of it....cause they are kinda true. ++++++

I don't know what happened there?...
reading that has triggered me. I was not around here the first time.
something about the style...the content? am now way tense.
could not finish it

knowing that much detail is flippin' insane!!!

[Forgive77]

Originally Posted by dubblemonkey

I don't know what happened there?...
reading that has triggered me. I was not around here the first time.
something about the style...the content? am now way tense.
could not finish it

knowing that much detail is flippin' insane!!!

Ya...the first time was hard for me too. That's why I gave it a red lable. Be good with you, and just watch out for the Narcissit. It's hard when you do things without "knowing" you do them. Makes you want to give her a hard poke!!! But it makes you look at yourself...and gives you answers to why you do the things you do. That's the best I can explain it. I brought it up cause of Beana77 issues right now with that guy she was friends with. Not to tick people off.

Originally Posted by Forgive77

Ya...the first time was hard for me too. That's why I gave it a red lable. Be good with you, and just watch out for the Narcissit. It's hard when you do things without "knowing" you do them. Makes you want to give her a hard poke!!! But it makes you look at yourself...and gives you answers to why you do the things you do. That's the best I can explain it. I brought it up cause of Beana77 issues right now with that guy she was friends with. Not to tick people off.

thanks Forgive...it's ok, I wasn't ticked off with you.
the article caught me way off guard and I was so immersed in it and at the rate my crazy mind works I rapidly started feeling tormented by all the information...and it was making SENSE to me...
It made me look at myself..yes you are correct, and It hurts to do that.
I believe I was in-fact angry with myself and the woman and also feeling kinda doomed and completely incurable.
lots of things happened when I read it and I stored it to finish reading later..

[Forgive77]

bump it on up again

Pissed me off the first time,and it pisses me off the second time too.

[Walking_Dead]

All I can say is.... Wow. This felt so spot on for me, for my last relationship, and I can also see it in my current relationship. This is definitely an article that I am going to pass on to someone else I know who may learn something from it. Thanks for posting it.

[Daliah]

I found it insightful and direct, not mean spirited.