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Mar 18, 2012, 10:21 AM
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My boyfriend just cheated on me. He said it was because I'm too emotionally unstable and that she was better than me. I've already cut and I really want to just hang myself and end all this stupid ****. I just really need a friend right now. I don't know what I'm going to do. And I'm really scared. Help.
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 Anonymous32912, MDDBPDPTSD
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Mar 18, 2012, 10:59 AM
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Your ex bf is a dishonest idiot. You are a worthwhile human being with value and depth. If he wants something shallow, then he is not worthy to be in a relationship with you. You will get through this. It may feel lie the end of the world, but you will survive this. In addition, you are a lady who is actively searching to better herself, You will keep improving in your life, because you have already begun that journey. I have seen it in your previous posts. You are an intelligent person who is heading for a better life. Your bf is heading in a different direction. That is his choice and his loss.
Don't let his actions harm you any more than it has. Just know that you are going through a yucky time now, but you will not always feel this way and things will get better. <<<hugs>>>>  
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Mar 18, 2012, 11:12 AM
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You didn't cause his behavior. He's avoiding taking responsibility for it. Don't let him blame you.
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Mar 18, 2012, 11:13 AM
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Hugs
 What a douche bag to cheat for one then to try to turn it around on you. It was his selfish choice to do it, if he thought that way about you he would of ended things before being selfish and thinking with his ****. Tell him to kick rocks and grow a set. I am so sorry for your pain right now, betrayal is the worst for anyone, pd or not. You didn't deserve that at all, not one bit. He is the one responsible for his decisions.
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Mar 18, 2012, 02:14 PM
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Quote:
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Mar 18, 2012, 06:22 PM
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I'm really trying. I need help. I was ok for a little bit. Now I'm suicidal again.
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Mar 18, 2012, 10:04 PM
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"I am living a story.
I will NOT give up." I truely believe when you picked this phrase to post as your "signiture" you meant it.. and you still should!! This person, your hopefully now ex, was just another chapter. I'm curious to see what the next chapter is so please keep writing!! (((HUGS)))
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Mar 22, 2012, 01:03 AM
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so sorry.
Unstable? So what if you are! He still did something horrible to you! And tried to make it like it was all about you! OMG. I have been thru this so many times with men. I hope you don't end yourself. I am so glad you talked to us. Keep talking. I hope you are alive. This has got to hurt, I know. What an immature thing for him to do to you! What an attitude! Billi
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Mar 22, 2012, 03:51 AM
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Don't give him the satisfaction of getting to you. He was terrible. Although you were close, there are so many wonderful people who would take care of you like you deserve. You are beautiful <3 Don't give up. The people worth loving will never leave you.
& I'll be your friend! Send me a message if you need to rant. I hope you are still alive, because I really care. We've all been there, and we know you can make it out. |
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#10
Mar 22, 2012, 10:00 AM
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I might be being an *** hole here, but maybe it's for the best because he was in fact triggering you. Just a thought....someone like that isn't worth hurting yourself. Sounds exactly like the guy I was with 12 -13 years ago before I met my husband. Same exact stuff. Exact same.
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