[3little.birds]

Like the more they say on here the more people judge the hell out of you? I actually feel like that anywhere with anyone I guess. The more I say/the more i act like myself and say what I think.. the less people like me.

Yes, definitely. Most people like others best when they know hardly anything about them. The more you fill in the blanks, the more people feel they can and should judge and criticize.

[MaDdSnow]

Originally Posted by 3little.birds

Like the more they say on here the more people judge the hell out of you? I actually feel like that anywhere with anyone I guess. The more I say/the more i act like myself and say what I think.. the less people like me.

I feel as if this is true on here as well as in real life. Who knows, I could be wrong but...I think I am right.

However, I am not like that in the slightest so why am I coming to such a conclusion?

It is probably because I view people as a different entity than who I am. Well, I do not know who I am. Perhaps I never will, but this isn't really about me,after all.

And by the time you are done reading this, you will probably like me less.

Oh dear, my brain hurts.

[kitten2012]

Originally Posted by 3little.birds

Like the more they say on here the more people judge the hell out of you? I actually feel like that anywhere with anyone I guess. The more I say/the more i act like myself and say what I think.. the less people like me.

Ok, wait. Let's try for perspective here. This thread is primarily for those of us who have trouble controlling our mood swings and tend to feel like others are rejecting us. So, if you find that you get responses with attitude, consider the source. Also, if you feel like you're being judged, consider your own tendency to feel that way. Having just found this site, I am overjoyed to be among people who have many of the same issues that I do. If that means that sometimes I catch someone on a bad day, and they make me feel like crap, that's part of the bargain (though to be fair, I haven't felt that yet).

So, just for the record, I frequently blow up at people I love, people I like, and people I don't know. I smoke weed, drink, sometimes binge eat, and get around more than I should. I make a great living, but spend myself into major debt. I am rolling in a sea of bad behavior. Judge at will - I'll still like you.

[Girl_Interrupted]

Yuuuuuuuup, pretty much, but I don't care. I don't care for them, so it doesn't bother me.

[3little.birds]

Thanks for the support guys.

MADDsnow- I don't like you less from reading that lol

Kitten2012- Good way to look at it. And man.. You sure you weren't describing me? LOL

[BrokenNBeautiful]

I have tried to not give out anything about me. (in various situations/places)

You know what happened?

lol

they assumed things about me anyway.

I might as well be myself.

And yes I do get scared that ppl like me less when I talk.

I am scared that people here don't like me.

But h***.

I can't make everyone like me and I can't like everyone.

But we can tolerate each other.

Billi