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Old May 29, 2012, 10:53 AM
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Seriously! It's not even like I have many.. but I just found out that my best friend ducked out of my family party over the weekend because she was having a better one at her grandparents rental! Cool! This isn't the first time either! This has to be like the 5th party in the past year that I have known about because of facebook stalking. COOL. Great ****ing friend.

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Old May 29, 2012, 11:49 AM
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I went thru the exact situation with my 'friends', seeing as tho I'm highly allergic to bullsh't, they are now no more than aquaintances... I really feel for you, and just wanted you to know I empathize
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Old May 31, 2012, 07:39 AM
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I get disappointed by my friends all the time. I just feel like, if they were really my friends, that they will know me better, and not lie to me.

They keep lying and dodging questions and I feel even more paranoid that they are excluding me or something, when really, if they told the truth, sure I might be upset but I wouldnt feel like some social pariah.

It's horrible, and sometimes I just feel I'd be better off without having them as friends at all!
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Old May 31, 2012, 09:25 AM
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3littlebirds and amy90 sounds like it might be time to make some new friends. Hugs.
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Old May 31, 2012, 11:10 PM
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No kidding.

A friend of my roommate's was over two weeks ago on a Saturday.

My roommate invited me out for breakfast with him and his friend.

I told him, "Make sure it's okay with Danny, too."

He told Danny, "Is it okay if Billi comes?"

I had to go to the bathroom while he and Danny were talking.

Guess what?

I come out of the bathroom and Danny's gone. Bruce (roommate) goes, "Oh, Billi, Danny had to hurry off somewhere."

Nice guy.

I told Bruce that I was fed up with people who ducked out of things because of me.

Although Bruce tried to calm me down, I was sure Danny did not want to go with me along.

Because he had done this to me before. He and Bruce and some others had planned to go to Disneyland 10 years ago and when Bruce invited me along, they cancelled the trip. I had to drag it out of Bruce that Danny had not wanted me along because of my "emotional issues".

Billi
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Old Jun 01, 2012, 11:13 AM
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Thanks Trippin.

Yes it is likewater.

I'm sorry Billi =[. I wouldda went to Disney anyway. F*** them.
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