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Oct 04, 2012 at 03:22 AM
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I have other mental health diagnoses which I feel gets alot worse with the diagnose of bpd added. Do other s find this happens to them .? MY anxiety is very extreme which leads on to very low depressed moods . This goes on for more then a week . I find all the emotions to deal with the depressed mood is the hardest . I will do everything I can do to lift my mood , exerciseing , hobbies ect , however the depressed mood goes on and on . I have extreme crying constantly throughout the day . Im on zoloft but I still get these extreme low moods that seem never ending and very intense .
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Oct 04, 2012 at 06:52 AM
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for me its lacking empathy... drives others mad and leaves me feeling even more empty and worthless when I cant relate or sympathise :-(
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Oct 04, 2012 at 08:37 AM
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The feeling of being alone, lonely, or abandoned, and the intense flashbacks of other times.
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Oct 04, 2012 at 08:59 AM
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It really depends, I think two of my emotions are the worst. My depression definitely feels the worst, but my anger is the hardest to control...it's getting a little better at least. I understand what you're saying atb about other diagnoses being added to the mix, my anxiety may be heightened, but then again I only know my own experience, this could be what others with anxiety feel...so it's hard to say.
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Oct 04, 2012 at 09:07 AM
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I definately think my depression is number 1. Throughout my day, I find that if I could beat my feeling of hopelessness and that nothing I do will matter, I would be a hundred times better. No matter what I do when I'm down it won't stop. I refuse to take meds for it. I did that last year. My T tried a bunch of different ones and they just turned it up to the point where I lost control and left my job. This is right after I got a promotion and the corner office. Nothing mattered. I could have won the lotto and it wouldn't have mattered. My depression is my disability,
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Oct 04, 2012 at 03:16 PM
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Oct 04, 2012 at 03:35 PM
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Bipolar here, so emotions are not really distressing in a bpd sense. I however HATE the abandonment delusions I suffer from. Sledge hammer to my last relationship... Its the soul reason I will NEVER dare date again. I've had enough of THAT for atleast 2 lifetimes... Yip, it did a hectic number on me, did me in. I can and will do without.
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Oct 04, 2012 at 06:44 PM
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Oct 04, 2012 at 06:48 PM
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For me it's hyperreactivity, melting down over minor disappointments or criticisms that wouldn't faze most people. It's the irritability and anger that have caused me the most regret, though.
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Oct 04, 2012 at 06:53 PM
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Oct 05, 2012 at 05:30 AM
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I wish I didn't have to admit this
but it's anger I am so emotionally explosive it's scares the crap out of me ....so I hide |
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Oct 05, 2012 at 09:16 AM
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hmm.
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Oct 05, 2012 at 01:51 PM
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defiently the abondment and rage, i feel so much resentment for all my ex "boyfriends" aka obsessions... the ones who left me, or get away.. ran off i dont want them to just me content and happy, i want to make sure they are constanly reminde dof how much they hurt me, everyonce in a while i have to send a text message to one of them jsut so i know im not forgotton about, i want to get a reactin out of them, anything..and then i feel better, almost as liek as long as they text me back i still have some power over them, or mabye they may consider comming back, not really sure i just know the last thing i want is to feel like one of them has moved on and just went foward with life and forgot about me, it just cant happen and i wont let it.
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Oct 05, 2012 at 06:57 PM
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anger, feeling hurt, feeling stepped on, feeling POWERLESS.
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Jan 17, 2013 at 04:52 PM
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Ruining all of the relationships I have, then realizing what I did wrong after they've already left me.
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Jan 17, 2013 at 05:13 PM
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Impulse, This is something I find hard to resist most days then I later regret after doing it.
Relationships, Not good at all with them especially keeping friends, I want them and then I don't. Abandonment, This is something that is happening to me right now and it makes me angry. Anger, Hmmm, I get angry at those who ignore me. Depression, When I feel bad I shut down and that is it, I totally feel numb. Self harm, This is on going for me right now it is more like an addiction and I can't kick the habit. |
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Jan 17, 2013 at 05:32 PM
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Anger was the first thing that came to mind for me, though mind you all of the crap that goes with BPD is just awful.
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Jan 17, 2013 at 06:21 PM
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I Think the two worst for me, personally is the Raging anger, Its EXTREMELY hard to control and my never ending roller coaster ride of emotions, I don't know how to control the mood swings, they're rapid and very fast changing..
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Jan 17, 2013 at 06:25 PM
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Let's just say everything about BPD is crap
 I agree though mood swings GRRRRRRRRR. |
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