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Old Nov 05, 2012, 11:12 AM
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I don't know if I should post this here, but...

I am so angry at my boss right now. I shouldn't even be, but I feel so completely useless right now. He was talking about how great the other person who used to be in the position that I have filled was, and how much he misses her. I'm like, thanks dude. Way to make me feel like I am a piece of crap who stinks at this job, unlike the great person who quit a year ago. (I have been told that I am not quite up to par at the job...in more words, but don't want to go into detail)

Part of me knows that this is dumb, like he probably just misses her as a person, but the other part of me is so pis*** off right now, that i just want to show him what doing a crappy job at this position would be like. And I just feel like no matter how hard I try, they are never going to be satisfied. I am doing the best I can with the teeny amount of training I received.

Well, that's all. Like I said, maybe I posted this in the wrong place, but I was thinking about how things sometimes set me off that may not set others off. Thanks for reading
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Old Nov 05, 2012, 11:20 AM
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Guys are idiots... Like me

Was he in "Love" with her, so he must remember all that was lost?
His behavior is plain rude and unprofessional, Period!

Good Grief!

I find his lack of Faith in your skills Disturbing...
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Old Nov 05, 2012, 11:26 AM
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I find his lack of Faith in your skills Disturbing...

Thank you, I needed that! (and the question about him being in love with her too...if I had the cahones I might have said that to him, lol)
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Old Nov 05, 2012, 11:31 AM
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You might say it as a joke one day, the next time he goes back down memory lane...
"Do you love her more than you love me" :rolf:

I'd love to see the reaction to THAT!
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Old Nov 05, 2012, 06:46 PM
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I hate feeling compared to someone else, too.

I empathize.

In my humble humble opinion, I feel that this person was not very tactful about relating this stuff about that former employee. I wish he did not gush over her in front of you. That's gross.

You are no better or worse than anyone else and you probably do just fine. Everyone does a job in their own way. She did it the way she did it and you do it the way you do it.

But oh he was not very tactful. I know that made you feel bad. Sorry.

That's like when my roommate says, "I like cats better than people". I can empathize with what he feels, but still, I am "people" to him. That hurts.

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