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Old Nov 27, 2012, 02:30 AM
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She was helping me with "push pull" problem and suddenly she's gone.

I hope no one here thinks it has to do with me.

I was wondering how she was doing and now suddenly shes gone?!

Abandonment issue alert! lol

I am afraid she holds me to blame.

She did not fail me, this push pull thing was my problem and I know she tried to help.

What happened?! I'm scared she left cause she got triggered by my problem.

I don't know when I am going to get over feeling like everything revolves around me!

Carol
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Old Nov 27, 2012, 12:04 PM
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She was helping me with "push pull" problem and suddenly she's gone.

I hope no one here thinks it has to do with me.

I was wondering how she was doing and now suddenly shes gone?!

Abandonment issue alert! lol

I am afraid she holds me to blame.

She did not fail me, this push pull thing was my problem and I know she tried to help.

What happened?! I'm scared she left cause she got triggered by my problem.

I don't know when I am going to get over feeling like everything revolves around me!

Carol
Carol,
I know for a fact that it wasn't you. Longleaf told me, probably 5-6 weeks ago that she wasn't sure that PC was good for her and put in to have her account deleted. She laid low for a week or so and then came back and started posting again figuring that they'd forgotten about her and that her account was safe....and then they yanked her.

I talked to her the day before she disappeared. She said she had the flu and that it made her emotions come out more than usual so she was keeping her distance, but she didn't know they were going to pull her account when they did. I think if she had known, she would have said something.

I don't know of any way to contact her. Maybe she'll come back on her own. I hope I was able to put your mind at a little bit of ease, however. You didn't do anything wrong...it just happened that way. Just really bad timing.
Thanks for this!
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Old Nov 29, 2012, 12:25 AM
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thanks Maranara for the information.

I miss her; she contributed a great deal.

I respect her decision.

Carol
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