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I hope not everyone's.
I too wonder what is happening to this board.
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I feel like leaving this board, too. But I don't want to act on this feeling unless people here really can't stand me.
If there are ppl here with problems with "negativity", I will try to respect it. But I don't know who they are. Also, I don't want to be afraid to post on here if I sound negative. I have been working as hard as I humanly can on my problems. I don't want to feel like it's a lost cause if all I am doing is still posting negative stuff.
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This board used to mean a great deal to me.
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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not on my ignore list...I don't think I have one...not something I want to start either...
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I don't like having one either, green. I use it very very judiciously. Or not at all.
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I don't have a single person on ignore, What makes you think people are ignoring you?
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I was unable to reply to a thread just now. Someone had me on ignore. I won't drop any names. But that really hurt.
They had a right to block me. I just didn't know that it affected my ability to even post on their thread. I thought that all it was going to do was block their ability to read my post on it. And thanks, Buttercup. I need to know who likes me here. When I think one person doesn't like me, there goes my bpd thinking, "I wonder who else doesn't?" (sad smile) ![]()
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I don't think it prevent you from posting.. They won't see what you wrote though if they have you on ignore, but everyone else will....
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When I could not post on their thread, I got a message that said, "This person has put you on their ignore list".
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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That's what I thought was going to happen.
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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That's news to me.. I wasn't aware it did that...
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![]() BrokenNBeautiful, LovelaceF
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Yeah I believe it is a new feature, I read it last week when DocJohn announced that.
Sorry Broken that must be hurtful ![]() |
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Because as I said a moment ago, if everyone had me on iggy, I would not be able to post on any thread but my own.
I really hope PC does not get too restrictive on posting here. I understand if ppl here don't want ppl to reply to their posts, but I liked the earlier version of the blocking, where I could still post, but the op did not have to read it. thanks, Carol
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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I'm pretty new here and I like everybody so far, and that's saying something because I don't normally like people.
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I like you.
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Hey, Carol, I have no ignore list either. I occasionally find posts annoying, but then I just skip them. I can't think of any poster's name who I had a problem with ever. I often feel ignored, but I try to chalk that up to my neurosis. No one here owes me anything. I wish I had a friend list but maybe people my age don't do things like that.
![]() Maybe a nice long thread of all the people who aren't going to use the ignore list, hmm? ![]() If someone felt they had to ignore you, I'd consider that they're issue. A way to frame it so as to feel better about it. They may be judgmental or eggshell or something else. Not your problem. |
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What the... There's a way to put people on an ignore list? Seriously? You get a pop-up saying that you're on someone's ignore list? Could that be any more hurtful?
Look, I may ruffle some feathers by saying this, but if you're on Psych Central you might want to get used to the fact that you're going to be reading some negativity here and there. People are hurting. When you're hurting, sometimes you're negative. Sometimes you're not. Get over it. If you don't like reading what a certain person has to say, then don't click on their posts, or scroll past them in the threads; simple. People do it to me all the time, I'm sure of it. |
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Yeah, that sucks. I wouldn't want to know if someone had me on their ignore list. Sometimes ignorance is better. Getting that message would hurt, unnecessarily, IMO. I wonder why that would be a new "feature"?
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Ridiculous. Sorry. I'm going to go have a cookie and calm down now. ![]() |
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You're definitely not on my Ignore List.
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I'm glad you brought Roadie out of hiding! Or it just might seem like she's hiding cuz I blocked some forums. Who knows.
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I don't think if you're ignored you are blocked from posting on threads, just if you do, your replies will not show. I had someone on ignore and i posted on their thread before, I'm pretty sure. YOu're not on my ignore list either. I don't think anyone hates you.
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For me, I don't have the willpower to not look. If I see a new post by a person who I know I will get upset if I read their post, I can't stop myself from clicking on it. Maybe this time will be different. Like Lucy and Charlie Brown and the football. But it's always the same. My mother tricked me this way too. So to protect myself, I ignore people. It's my weakness, not theirs. We already know I can't help them. They have not responded positively to my previous posts to them. They pretty much think I'm a douche, and have let me know it. So basically, if somebody has you on ignore, there's a good chance the feeling is mutual. No harm, no foul. Not everybody is gonna like you. No biggie.
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I don't think I've been around long enough (only posting regularly since February) to have been in this situation anyway. If I'm on ignore then it would have to be for a ridiculous reason and not my problem anyway. |
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