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Sep 18, 2013, 09:49 PM
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riding a bpd high tonight. My granddaughter who lives with me FINALLY got a job interview. Her not working has been a real issue especially with me being able to set boundaries around giving her money, etc. The codependent part of me has been so out there. I feel resentful on the one hand because I feel taken advantage of, but then awful when I don't give her what she wants. In any case, hopefully she will get this job and maybe it will take a little of the pressure off. Now I have to be careful not to over expect. Does any of this make any sense? But just euphoric right now. Feeling too good and that's scary too.
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Sep 19, 2013, 12:11 AM
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I'm glad that things are looking up. I hope they continue that way for you.
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Sep 19, 2013, 10:43 AM
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I've mentioned it before that I find happiness to be a scarier emotion than my anger sometimes, so I totally understand where you're coming from.
I hope your granddaughter gets the job so that you are at a bit more peace! 
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