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Old Aug 22, 2013, 01:09 AM
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So after my photo shoot the other night I went out for drinks and dinner with the models and met this guy there; not typically the guy I would usually hook up with but the more I get to know him he's cool. So I have spent like the last 3 days with him. He took me out yesterday night, paid for everything, picked me up the whole bit but now I feel lonelier than I did before and see myself either clinging to him like I have every other relationship or avoiding him altogether and feeling lonelier than before..Why can't I just find the right one and I talked so much; probably made a fool of myself ugh...
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Old Aug 22, 2013, 01:22 AM
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Perhaps you are over thinking it.
He obviously likes you.
And if you like him, then that's all that matters.
Try to relax and maybe distract yourself from thinking about it.
Just a suggestion.
Good luck.
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Old Aug 22, 2013, 07:41 AM
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Old Aug 22, 2013, 09:33 AM
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Hey Angel,

Take it easy on yourself, ok?! He obviously likes you, you are trying to waaaaay overthink this, just see how it goes? Enjoy it!

Take care cheekychops x
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Old Aug 22, 2013, 11:07 AM
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Angel, we have BPD. It is the nature of our illness that we are 2 sided in relationships. If you have not already done so, read I Hate You, Don't Leave Me. It won't change how you feel, but it will help you understand better the way that we handle relationships.
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