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Old Nov 15, 2013, 02:31 PM
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You know the one that thinks their kid is an angel and meanwhile they are a terror. Well, not quite that mom as I know my kid is not perfect but he is becoming a terror in public.

We are thinking of pulling him from cubs after a headbutting issue last night and swimming because he has been having fits in the pool. We can't have him hurting other kids or putting them in danger.

I hate this. I hate his Aspergers, I hate his anxiety. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it. I am tired of trying to be strong and not show how hurt I am by his behaviour but I can't do this.
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Old Nov 15, 2013, 05:01 PM
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You can do it. Hang in there Mags.

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Old Nov 15, 2013, 05:37 PM
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I don't know you, but judging by your posts I know enough to say I think you are a good mother. Naturally some children are more of a handful than others. Perhaps you have the "hand full" one.

The fact that his behavior bothers you shows that you are a good mother, because a bad mother wouldn't care.

I wish you luck, and I hope you have a good weekend
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Old Nov 16, 2013, 08:07 PM
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You are a great mother Mags.
Even as a fellow parent I can't imagine what you're going through.
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Old Nov 16, 2013, 08:14 PM
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Another bad day. I am angry at the hospital for not hiring a new child psychologist right away when the one he was seeing left. She left in the summer, they *may* have someone mid-January! My child needs help that I cannot provide and this is upsetting me.
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Old Nov 16, 2013, 11:42 PM
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I figured you guys are tired of my posting how bad of mom I am so I figured I would just add more to this thread.

Seriously, I give up. I cannot be a special needs mom. He needs more then I can give. I am just so tired, physically, emotionally, spiritually. I can't do this. I am really afraid that I am at my breaking point.

I can't do this but we need my husband to have his second job so I have to.
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Old Nov 17, 2013, 04:43 AM
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Another bad day. I am angry at the hospital for not hiring a new child psychologist right away when the one he was seeing left. She left in the summer, they *may* have someone mid-January! My child needs help that I cannot provide and this is upsetting me.


I'm so sorry. I would be going out of my mind with frustration too if I were you. I really hope they find someone ASAP.
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