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Old Feb 11, 2014, 12:13 PM
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Do "inflatables" count??
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Old Feb 11, 2014, 12:36 PM
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I met my husband 5 years ago (age 20) and we have been married for 4 months. Before that I had one serious relationship that lasted 6 months... not too much before that
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Old Feb 11, 2014, 02:28 PM
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Oh I've had many relationships mainly due to my idealization phases. It wasn't until I met me current boyfriend that I learned what healthy love felt like.

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Old Feb 11, 2014, 05:48 PM
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Do "inflatables" count??
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Old Feb 11, 2014, 07:41 PM
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Way too many relationships to count. Been married three times; I got the best man of my life the third time around. Took a lot of therapy and a big change of attitude this time around.
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Old Feb 11, 2014, 08:00 PM
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Yes, and now I'm married.
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Old Feb 11, 2014, 09:03 PM
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I've been on many dates. I've been in 6 relationships. I've had two long-term relationships: one was 9 months, and the other (my current relationship) has been 8 years. For my current relationship, we have actually been engaged for 8 years too Maybe one day we'll be married...lol.
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Old Feb 12, 2014, 03:12 PM
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No my "love life" makes about as much sense as any other aspect of my life lol. The only real relationship I've been in was with the father of my children. That lasted for about 2 years. He was very verbally and physically abusive along with being sneaky and manipulative. That ended over 5 years ago and I did not start seeing anyone that I was really interested in and would could consider being with long term until last year. We were seeing each other for six months. I'm pretty sure I recently ruined any chances with that person though I believe. I haven't heard from him in three weeks. Now I do know that I need to be alone until I get a lot of ***** worked out. Other than that there were about 3 guys that I dated very short term.
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Old Feb 14, 2014, 04:41 AM
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I'm married but still feel insecure!
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Old Feb 14, 2014, 10:23 AM
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I've had many boyfriends and was married for 10 years (he cheated on me throughout and even when I was pregnant) until my husband walked out on me and our 2 sons to go live with his girlfriend. My relationships are poor with men essentially because I look for people to "help" and end up with alcoholics, abusers and cheaters. Anyway...I haven't had a boyfriend in 7 years and it is a lot less stressful. I do miss dating....but having 2 sons and one has autism....even though they are grown, they still live with me and my life is already overflowing with responsibility.
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Old Feb 14, 2014, 11:36 AM
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Yes! I was in a relationship with the best man I had ever met. Unfortunately after a year and a half things weren't working out. We are both to blame. I miss him, and think about him from time to time, and hope someday we might be able to be friends again.
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Old Feb 14, 2014, 12:15 PM
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I've had plenty of dates n few relationships. But the lad I am seeing at the moment ( been with just over a year) understands me the most xxx
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Old Feb 15, 2014, 07:22 PM
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I've done casual stuff with people, but I've never been in a proper relationship.
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Old Feb 15, 2014, 07:48 PM
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I was married once, and have been in two long term relationships besides that.
Had periods where I did the "Friends With Bennifits" thing, and periods when I remained single long-term.
Currently in a relationship.
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Old Feb 16, 2014, 07:35 AM
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Dated like mad for more than a decade. Dumped people or just disappeared when they'd fall off of the pedestal, or if I felt I did. Only four serious relationships in 16 years of dating. Most "relationships" barely made it past a month or two.

First stable relationship of my life is my current one, going on four years together.
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Old Feb 16, 2014, 10:51 AM
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Yea I've done plenty of dating in the past. Now I'm staying single for good. It's too much work and difficult if you have issues like I do

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