[Fuzzybear]

It hurts so much that my IRL "best f. friend" never cared about me and was using using using me all along . Why why why WHY do people violate our trust like that?? HOW DARE SHE

Btw a female T said I should have said HOW DARE HE to a certain doctor who violated my trust (long ago). I still sometimes remember his ugly blaming wrong words

Grrr at me and my mind. Too freakin sensitive

[atomicc]

I'm sorry people hurt you, Fuzzy It's not right of them. We're here for you

[gayleggg]

Dear Fuzzy, I'm so sorry you were hurt IRL. I know it hurts to feel used. And I know you have been hurt online, too. Maybe you are too sensitive, but maybe that is also one of you best character traits, but cause you are always ready to help those that are hurting. Just be glad this person is now out of your life and can't hurt you anymore. There are good people in the world it is just hard to find them sometimes.

Hope you feel better soon. You are loved here.

[Insignificant other]

I'm sorry you were hurt Fuzzy.
I know the feeling and I also know that after some time it will get better.
You are always here for many of us so just know that we are here for you too.
Be strong. I hope you feel better as soon as possible.

[lynn808]

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw Fuzz,
so sorry someone hurt you...please know you will come out of this stronger....but please keep your sensitive side and know it is a good thing....its a shame there are cruel and heartless people in the world...wish we could tattoo on their forehead so that everyone would know and no one else would get hurt....just a lil thing I do in my head when I see these people.. I mark their forehead...makes me giggle a bit...then I feel better... I have even approached a person being treated badly and given them a hug....right in front of the cruel person....it usually stops the cruel person in their tracks...hope this mental exercise helps!!! take care now

[Frankbtl]

Hi Fuzzy, Really sorry you're IRL ""friend"" let you down/ But that really is their loss at the end of the day. You did give them much more than they realised in your trust/friendship and could have given them a lot more but they left not realising a thing, I take it, and with nothing really. Now that's really sad for them. You still have those amazing qualities to give though that are worth SO much. I can understand how that may be difficult right now, but in time, with the right people in your life they are going to be SO lucky, and you ARE going to have/HAVE GOT so much more a meaningful life/outlook than your ""friend"" has. You've shown your worth in all of this!!

As for the doctor: well it can be easy to feel intimidated, taken aback, hurt, dejected.......(so many feelings!) if your trust is violated and I can completely understand if you couldn't or didn't even think to confront him. I think there are plenty of people (!) who might not.
But if I can't convince you to show someone your claws if it happens again?? Can I??? No you're a nice bear!! then walk away and at least know in YOURSELF that they just AREN'T worth your time, effort or any suffering!! You ARE better than any of that!!
Hugs
Alison