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May 14, 2014, 10:54 PM
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thinks it's romantic...it's not. Its over the top.Yeah, it's the worst case scenario but for us......it's ALWAYS the worst case scenario.
I like the song...but it makes me angry cause I've been this and demanded this...and hello? It's over the top... Hey does that mean Bruno Mars is BPD or just has been with one so he can relate (not understand maybe...but relate????) And I still would....even tho it meant nothing to him...I still would... of course I don't, anymore, expect him to......so maybe that's growth?
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May 16, 2014, 12:00 AM
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Wow, it is a powerful song, about what seems to me to be an unhealthy attachment. Is it BPD? I don't know. We do expect a lot from other people and get let down. Sometimes we really expect too much--like they can always be there for us, every second--and yes, die for us. Or that we would do anything for them---anything, even if they don't care for us.
Yes, I think it's growth that we recognize this kind of relationship as unhealthy. My two cents' worth, anyway. I'd have to listen to a lot more of his songs to see if I think he might have BPD, though. |
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