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May 23, 2014, 08:03 AM
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omg been ssoooooo cr## last couple of days not done much ,husband comes home from work and sees house slightly untidy ,yes just a bit ,and starts crashing around muttering how he cant take it anymore. !!!!!! Que emotional meltdown.!!!! He wants to know what he did wrong!!
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The world is not blind it does not want to see !!!  dx severe Depression Gad Social phobic Borderline pd part time insomniac |! 
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May 23, 2014, 08:09 AM
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I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Maybe try talking out with him why you're upset? If you don't communicate that to him both of you will end up feeling frustrated. I hope you feel better, love.
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Allie Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder. I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress. I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
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May 23, 2014, 09:31 AM
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Sounds like your husband was having a meltdown of his own which triggered yours. Atomicc is right, you all need to communicate in a constructive manner. If you've been in a bad place for a couple of days I suspect it is beginning to wear on him a bit. Those of us with BPD forget sometimes how our mood swings affect those who love us. If we expect them to deal with us, then we ought to be willing to be there for them when they have their meltdown moments. Just saying.....
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