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Old Jul 26, 2014, 05:20 AM
Melomelon Melomelon is offline
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hey, i know what borderline is now i guess. but i still find it hard to understand. i don't know if you guys mind me posting this, because i didn't really understand. but if you like someone as a borderline, are you still supposed to feel empty? it really makes me sad that the person i like doesn't care. i can't normally be friends with him and he dislikes me now. i tried to make him care but everyone found it weird and disgusting. i don't know what to do. if i can't do something easy like this, how am i supposed to react next time i meet someone?
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 26, 2014, 09:49 AM
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Hello Melomelon! I hope you have thought about seeing a therapist. This can help you to deal with some of the things you are feeling.
Yes, it is common for borderlines to have a feeling of emptiness. I call it being hollow and usually the only thing that would make me not feel that way is being loved. Unfortunately we can't always be the loved by who we want or how we want.

hang in there deary!
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Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.

I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.


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