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Aug 27, 2014, 09:42 PM
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Why the hell do I over analyze and over think every single possible situation? Why do I feel abandoned, even after a couple hours. Am I just that insecure? Or does this go deeper? I am freaking 30 years old. When will I have this all figured out???
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Aug 27, 2014, 10:51 PM
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Someone I'm close to keeps telling me that I do the things that I do (the same things you said) because I was lacking something important to my childhood development. She thinks I was traumatized & then blocked that trauma from my memory. Maybe something happened when you were younger. Were you neglected or anything? I don't recall being neglected but I understand & I do the same exact things you do.
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Aug 28, 2014, 04:29 AM
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Yeh it all links togther .., I agree with nochild here xxx
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Aug 28, 2014, 09:31 AM
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I agree with Nochild. This behavior usually stems from not feeling safe with caregivers or being mistreated by caregivers.
I'm a survivor of domestic violence, which went on for most of my childhood. This lead me to feel that I was unsafe and that I was trapped in a dangerous situation. It's common for survivors of any kind of long-term abuse to feel this way.
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