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Dec 06, 2014, 01:34 PM
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The father always prided himself on being Peter Pan.
He "added" on 5 years to his age so that his "dream girl" would agree to marry him. But inside he was a child? Very intelligent intellectually but emotionally? dear daddy you were such a narcissist. I wish you had loved me but you didn't know how  Anyone else dxd as "borderline" who has been harmed by "narcissistic" parents? 
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Dec 06, 2014, 02:01 PM
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ahhhhh. Gotta love it.
The self accusatory voices are screaming at me. Thou shalt not disclose. Thou shalt not be open. "why does it always rain on me? Is it because I lied when I was 17?  
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Dec 06, 2014, 02:17 PM
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Definitely relate. My mother I think had NPD. She never received treatment. I think it was more that therapists back then had no clue how to help NPD.
It is still almost impossible from what I hear. Many high level executives, doctors have NPD. I always laughed when I worked for them cuz I could say developmentally I was older than them. When u understand the disorder it is much easier to interact just keep telling them how great they are and pat them on the head. LOL. |
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Dec 07, 2014, 04:35 AM
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I'm sorry you're in a bad place.
My dad had something undiagnosed and was an alcoholic. My biological mother was schizophrenic. I don't know how much that influenced the shaping of me but I think it did play some role. |
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#5
Dec 07, 2014, 08:59 AM
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Did you live with your biological mother or father? You keep pointing out biological mother just curious?
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Dec 07, 2014, 01:43 PM
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She initially had custody of my sister and I. My dad saw us every other weekend. There was quite a long drawn out custody battle in court. She was declared an unfit mother. My dad eventually got custody. She pulled the middle finger and never saw us again. My dad remarried my mother. My biological mother eventually agreed to sign adoption papers to my mother when I was about 6 (we had not seen her during this time frame because she had no intention of seeing us). Yeah and that's about it really. |
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Dec 09, 2014, 02:17 AM
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Yes I believe my mother was narcissistic. She was extremely self absorbed, always 'right', emotionally abusive, lying to get own way and blamed others for everything! I'm BPD because of the ongoing abuse from her. Maybe if I had a loving mother I would have been an emotionally sensitive but stable person.
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Dec 09, 2014, 05:01 AM
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My mom hasn't been diagnosed with narcissism, but I sure do suspect that she has strong tendencies at least. My brother is a complete narcissist.
These are core issues that hound me, but I just cannot seem to forgive them yet.  It hurts too deeply. Gentle hugs to you, fuzzybear.
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