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Old Dec 08, 2014, 10:12 PM
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I'm 24 and a half today... Every time it's the 8th of a month, I feel like my mind is dangling a long-term relationship right in front of me, and I'm never able to catch it. PLEASE HELP. I need hope.
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Old Dec 09, 2014, 12:18 PM
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instead of focusing on relationships, focus on yourself. what is it that is going to make you feel happy and whole within yourself? what can you do to become an independent woman and take care of yourself? what are your interests? what can you do to find happiness without relying on another person? until you can find these things on your own, you will not really be able to have a healthy relationship.
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Old Dec 09, 2014, 08:57 PM
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Old Dec 09, 2014, 11:11 PM
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Is there a reason why the 8th is so important?
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Old Dec 09, 2014, 11:42 PM
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I'm sorry that you feel this way.

Is there anything you can schedule in advance to do on the 8th so you're out and about without necessarily focussing on all the other stuff going on?
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Old Dec 10, 2014, 01:52 PM
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The 8th is my birthday. Well, June 8th. December 8th was my halfy.
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Old Dec 10, 2014, 04:49 PM
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instead of focusing on relationships, focus on yourself. what is it that is going to make you feel happy and whole within yourself? what can you do to become an independent woman and take care of yourself? what are your interests? what can you do to find happiness without relying on another person? until you can find these things on your own, you will not really be able to have a healthy relationship.
I agree with this 100% ^^
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