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Old Oct 30, 2015, 12:55 PM
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"Normal" is as relative a term as can be found. What may be "normal" for one could be perceived as anything but by somebody else.

What matters is that YOU have people in your life that you consider to be that and that works for you which is awesome! People - "real" (rather than "virtual" people connections) in your life that are supportive and caring people that you can turn to!!

Only wondering...if these people have been in your life.....why have you been posting on PC to "vent and complain" (your words).

Just curious.

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Old Oct 30, 2015, 01:39 PM
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I think what I am learning after many people here rejecting me is I am much further along in my recovery and need to focus more on the normal people in my life. Funny how I am getting much more positive responses from them. I guess I am getting closer to being well instead of sick. Maybe I need more functional people guiding my way instead of here where most people are still extremely sick or disordered. Good luck with your therapists meds and docs.
No one's rejecting you, they just aren't putting up with being verbally abused. That's what they're rejecting.

I've also seen a lot of support in this thread, but it seems that isn't wanted. If you want people to commiserate with you, let them know that. Otherwise, they will contradict negativity because that's the healthy--functional--thing to do and taking the OP at face value. What is dysfunctional is coming on here and expecting people to feed your depression, then being mean to them and calling them sick when they don't. That is very hurtful. And, as I said before, no one wants to be around someone that hurts them.

As I get the feeling that this response is exactly what you were fishing for, I'll make this my last reply. I sincerely hope for the best for you. Be well.
Thanks for this!
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Old Oct 30, 2015, 02:12 PM
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Sorry, folks, this thread has gotten argumentative and unsupportive. I'm closing it while the team discusses what needs to be done with it.
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