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Im afraid i've started using people: i never had sex before 30, now any man i see gorgeous , i want to have sex with them to see the differences. Different people sam e result: i dont enjoy sex and i feel like running from that person. Its been like this with only two people but i see the pattern and im afraid im just using them. I dont want to but it doesnt feel like usong them when we do i.
Anyone understanding this? does it mean i use people? I feel nad about it cos i dont care about sering him again..

[Unrigged64072835]

For a long time I used men for comfort. It was a rough ride.

I'm now married and while it may be sexless now (lots of side effects for both of us) we still love each other and want to be together.

[TishaBuv]

It's just known as 'casual sex'. It's a mutual use. If you're honest, you have no reason to feel guilty.

It's natural that you are seeking a good sexual experience. I hope you find one that rocks your world!

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I've had sex with only two people. the first one i "used" him to quit being a virgin. the second to see differences between men about sex.
i dont really feel attracted to anyone or sex at all, but since it seems its such a big deal i want to find out if i can have good sex too. this way i feel im "using" that person. am i really using him? but i didnt choose one at random. he's supposed to be my boyfriend and i would never have sex with others that are not mu boyfriends.
what do you think?