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Old Apr 08, 2017, 08:55 PM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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I never believed I was Idealizing/Devaluating, but maybe I really am.

I'm in that post-coital bliss, feeling truly loving and secure with h.

Oh well... I am what I am. I'm just gonna enjoy the good times and try to stop this crazy dance that brings on the bad times.

Am I really idealizing him? I can logically list his faults right now. I don't see him as all good or all bad. I'm just happy and content.

I'm really confused about BPD or not. It doesn't matter, I guess. As long as I can control myself better and not SH.
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Old Apr 09, 2017, 05:08 AM
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Hey Tisha, I'm in the same shoes as you and it feels like this towards my ex-bpd date too.

Lets just enjoy our weekend.
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