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I feel like having mental illness makes me unfit for any but superficial relationships. Why would anyone want to know me? Why would anyone want all "my stuff" to deal with? It makes me very lonely. How do you have a good relationship with anyone if I can 't have one with myself?
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I feel much the same way. Especially after my last T rejected and terminated me. After 55 years in therapy, on and off, at 70 years old, I remain clueless.
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I find that longtime friends can only handle depressed me so much. When speaking with friends I tend to focus conversation on them and whatever they're going through. I don't pretend things are great by me but I don't complain or let on just how bad I'm feeling. I've found that people are willing to be with you on this for a time, but only a time. I can't blame them--the discomfort and withdrawal of others is one of the things that makes depression so devastating. So, I get what you're saying, in short ![]() |
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I also feel unfit for relationships.
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I feel the same way. I don’t have friends. My marriage ended because of me and I haven’t dated much. My family relationships are okay but I don’t get real deep with anyone.
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