[Unforgiven1]

I am in the mood to start a fight right now. I want to make the 300 mile journey to visit my ex and start a fight with her ex husband. She left him when he went to prison. She separated from him. Then she met me. Omg I want to. Go to Iowa and start a fight for the heart that is truly mine

[Unforgiven1]

I refuse to take it back. I said what I said for a reason. Her" husband" is a pos. Make no bones about it. He cheats on her,lies to her, he hurts his own children. Whom all 3 love me. She is very deserving of my wrath and her kids also. But I am gone, cut out from her life like a memory. I stand willing to fight,willing to do the unnecessary for my queen and her children. And yet I can do absolutely nothing about it

[Unforgiven1]

I've stood up to this prick before, he wouldn't get out of daddy's truck. He wouldn't stand up to me for his wife. The urge to start a fight is too overwhelming

[Unforgiven1]

So far nothing yet. I expect to be turned down because she wants to continue to love her husband. I swear to f%%%%%%God I will make it rain blood. His blood

[AzulOscuro]

In spite of feeling this rage against that person, it’s ok, you have reasons to feel that way but live this feeling. Let yourself feeling it bc you are stronger than this feeling and you are gonna be able to keep in until it diminishes.
Do you really believe this is the best way to help your ex? Consider other possibilities even when your feelings don’t let you see them just now. Only to take them into account.
If you were in her shoes? How would you feel more comfortable with?
Is that guy still in prison?
I know it’s very hard to see beyond your feelings and control your impulses just now.
Can you contact a therapist or are working with a therapist?
Did you learn any technique to manage and control these feelings?
You need to let them a time so they (feelings) are gonna show their real face. If I’m not wrong. I’m not a professional. Do you feel confident to talk with a psychologist just now? If not, at least, stay here with us.

[Unforgiven1]

For evil to exist in this world a good man only need to stand idly by

[Unforgiven1]

Originally Posted by AzulOscuro

In spite of feeling this rage against that person, it’s ok, you have reasons to feel that way but live this feeling. Let yourself feeling it bc you are stronger than this feeling and you are gonna be able to keep in until it diminishes.
Do you really believe this is the best way to help your ex? Consider other possibilities even when your feelings don’t let you see them just now. Only to take them into account.
If you were in her shoes? How would you feel more comfortable with?
Is that guy still in prison?
I know it’s very hard to see beyond your feelings and control your impulses just now.
Can you contact a therapist or are working with a therapist?
Did you learn any technique to manage and control these feelings?
You need to let them a time so they (feelings) are gonna show their real face. If I’m not wrong. I’m not a professional. Do you feel confident to talk with a psychologist just now? If not, at least, stay here with us.

I stand by my morals. Plain and simple. This guy is a absolute pos. Period. This guy dealt drugs, ripped people off, often fighting with everyone, abusing his wife his kids, you name it he has done it. For me personally, I wouldn't hesitate to go toe to toe with him and lose my life. She is worth it, her kids are worth it. I know I'm a crazy sob but I use my hatred for good. Don't question my morals.

[AzulOscuro]

I’m not questioning your moral. Maybe you understood that way bc I told you that that rage you are feeling now, need to be slow down someway, in order to give you a colder mind and look for a more convenient solution for everyone.
I can figure out there are guys like that you describe but I want you to think about the best intervention possible.
So, I don’t think you are lying. But, I know how emotions can lead us to see the picture as fatal and lead us to take a wrong decision.

First of all, your ex is an ex. And it must be a reason, right? I unknown the reasons but you can’t stop her for taking her own decisions. You should guess first if she needs your help or any help. And in case she need it because she’s being abused, you must follow some steps in these cases that is a protocol. She should attend with you or with another person as support to the right place to receive information about the steps to do when someone is being abused. The best in these cases is the safety of the person who is being abused.
Then, in the case of the kids, you can intervene by reporting the abuse but you have to be sure of it.

I’m not diminishing relevance in a serious topic as domestic abuse or questioning the veracity.
What I don’t want is you to take a bad decision.
Said that, I don’t know the whole picture or the context so, I can’t add much more.