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Old Dec 04, 2019, 06:54 AM
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I felt sorta bad?/sad? mentioning it. Maybe it's something in those dysfunctional matriarchal dynamics that I think I do get when you write about that? I also think you've got something in trying just to be happy in yourself. My husband is dead -- just the way it is. Your husband is -- frustrating (to say the least?) -- just the way it is. I'm sorry for your situation, just as I'm sorry for mine. AND we do go on, somehow?
Oh gosh, yes, he had such an enmeshed relationship with his mother. Have you ever seen The Grifters with John Cusack and Angelica Huston?

This POS ex isn’t worth my taking time to even think about anymore. I need to make my current life work and get out of this awful traumatized rut. Thanks for the support.
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Old Dec 04, 2019, 06:54 AM
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I seriously do not think this has to do with you (the way you are feeling). Whether or not you have BPD, sounds like you are simply reacting to being ignored. And not in an unhealthy way.
Thank you so much for that validation and support!
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Old Dec 04, 2019, 09:58 PM
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Thank you so much for that validation and support!
You are very welcome ❤
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