My N "Family" Showed Their True Colors As Usual

So, my narc parents showed their true colors yet again. For a time, they appeared supportive of me. They even acted as though they had confidence in me as a person and were discussing my goals with me. However, faking an emotional connection on that level is tough for a narc. So, they have obviously changes their tune.

On one occasion, I had a little too much to drink. Now, my "mom" is telling me how I "will never get anywhere in life because I'm an alcoholic". And how she sees no point in talking to me. She also claims that I "did so much damage to the relationship that she doesn't want to bother listening to me anymore. It's amazing how in one night I went from "you're awesome, I really think your on the right track" to "you'll never amount to anything and I don't want to waste my time with somebody like you". It never ceases to amaze me how unbelievably phony these people are. It makes me sick to my stomach honestly.

Plus, my mother enjoys harassing my sister online who has gone no contact. My flying monkey brother and her think of mean things to post on her Facebook wall and even once tricked her into friending a sock puppet account that harassed her and said cruel and disparaging things to her to make it look like someone agreed with my "family".

The reason why she has been treated this way is because she married a man of a different race and this my narc parents turned against her completely. My mother admits that one on occasion, when my sister previously had a one night stand with a young man who was of a different race that this caused my narc mother to "turn cold towards her". My mother has. Since then, she has been the scapegoat of the family. Although, since she went no contact I may be filling that role for these people. However, unlike most racists my narc mother has a website that is about "promoting racial and religious equality". Huh, apparently that way of thinking didn't extend to get own daughter but she just saw this website as a way to try to "make herself look good".

My narc parents were asking for my phone to get information about her, and I refused. This obviously did not set well. So, this probably contributed to them turning on me as well. It just sickens me how malicious, petty, and utterly callous these people are and just how completely FAKE they are. The more I see, the more I want NOTHING to do with this family. They are monsters.

((((hugs)))

I am sorry for the way you were treated.

I’m sorry about the “family”