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Old May 12, 2011, 11:43 AM
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I wish to say sorry if i offended anyone, or "even worse", put anyone off from going into chat. Chat when prepared is a fantasic place to be, i was very unprepared. My greatist concern now is i may have put off others from going into chat. I have in chat made great friends, got some great advice, and been able to help give advice to another. To any who reads this and is weary of chat, pay no mind to my comments, again i re-state, "i" overeacted. "I" overeacted by being un-prepared, now i've recived help to be prepared in chat. In chat i can relax, talk, and listen to other peoples wisdom(which i need), so thank you all in chat to help me understand this aspect of why chat exsits. Agian i say to any who like myself feels alone, lost, abandoned and on and island, (if one feels up to it), give chat a chance, but be prepared, my unpreparedness was "my" own fault. I went into chat thinking i knew it all, when the truth is i don't. I'm in chat and p.c to "learn share and grow". Ironicaly i'm an absolutle begginer, thats what chat has taught me, and i'm thankful, very thankful because now i'm learning. Sorry to have caused waves. I have very welcomed everbodys opinion upon my comments. Lots of Loves to all. sanada..xxxxxxx p.s-anyone put off by my thread about chat, "i" was wrong, "i" misunderstood. I'm growing and getting better in communication. Thanx xx.
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Old May 12, 2011, 03:07 PM
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and people should observe the rule that what goes on in the chat, stays in the chat.
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Old May 12, 2011, 04:02 PM
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Chat made me loose a good friend x
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Old May 12, 2011, 04:20 PM
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Old May 12, 2011, 05:15 PM
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Everyone has brainfarts occassionally. You certainly won't be the last
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Old May 13, 2011, 01:26 AM
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Where do I find that rule ... the one about being mum about what goes on in chat? I have not seen any rule that requires us to protect by our silence any behavior proscribed by the Guidelines.
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Old May 13, 2011, 05:39 AM
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Chat made me loose a good friend x
Broken Rainbow, sorry chat has done something to you thats unforgivable. I Love You Rainbow. Dont give up. your surrouded by friends in p.c. p.s, keep up the good work, and run round that track and set your self for future olympics. SPORT..Yes we love it. x sanada. x
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Old May 13, 2011, 05:44 AM
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Where do I find that rule ... the one about being mum about what goes on in chat? I have not seen any rule that requires us to protect by our silence any behavior proscribed by the Guidelines.
Wow Byzantine, wow. I have to think about that one to properly understand. Its good, very ,very good, thats why i need to contemplate what you said. Wow, thanx. lots of loves. sanada. xxxxxx
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Old May 13, 2011, 07:20 AM
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There is no rule about not talking about what is said in chat outside of chat. Conversations are welcomed to continue in PM or on the boards if someone feels like they want to do so.

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Old May 13, 2011, 10:11 AM
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There is no rule about not talking about what is said in chat outside of chat. Conversations are welcomed to continue in PM or on the boards if someone feels like they want to do so.

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thank you DocJohn, i feel that i need advice like that you gave. Upon entering chat i did'nt know the rules(which there are some), with good reason(not rules, just how it works) It felt like i'd stepped upon a minefeild(which is not true),thats was "my" own interpritation/view( soz 4 bad spelling), was from a different angle.
In chat i now know how to understand how it works(to a point where i can learn more). Thanx for your response, i needed it. "I" only wish and hope "i" have not put off "anyone" from going into chat. In chat i've met beautiful people, and i thank p.c for that from the bottom of my heart, without chat i may as well be on an island, alone. In threads, its different. Its an opinion, a veiw, a point of felling or advice that somebody needs; and i'm glad to try to help anyone who needs a different view, also to recive a point of reference that helps oneself. Thank you DocJohn. lots of loves . sanada,,x
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Old May 13, 2011, 10:09 PM
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I would guess that many of us have unintentionally offended someone else in chat. Sometimes it moves so fast that it can be easy to misinterpret what is written.
IMHO, it is not very different from what can happen in face to face conversations.

We are all individuals and view what is written from our current perspective of our own life. Today some written words sound positive - tomorrow the same words could sound like criticism.

I think DocJohn has set up a very safe and comfortable place for all of us to exchange our thoughts, feelings and opinions. We are very fortunate to have a forum in which we can be ourselves and are only charged with not deliberately hurting someone else.
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Old May 14, 2011, 05:51 AM
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Does chat get checked like what been said in it or anything??
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Old May 14, 2011, 06:19 AM
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Does chat get checked like what been said in it or anything??
No, but anyone can copy the chat script and send it to a mod if they feel it was abusive.
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