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Old Dec 20, 2019, 03:25 PM
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I do not want to sound up myself. I don’t think I check this forum “often enough”...

Occasionally I have strongly disagreed with a few of the opinions posted here... mostly by a few former members. So I have refrained from posting. Mostly as I am an “oral receptive type” ... without realising that.... so have been used at times without realising it, in particular by Narcissistic (Antisocial?) parental units.

What I am about to post is so “ridiculous” and to some no doubt utterly “trivial”

I was told I would go to prison at the age of 4 for........

You will never know. But it was the most trivial “crime” I could think that any four year old cub could commit.

Please forgive my rant. I’m not angry with anyone here..

Feel free to move this post, it’s maybe in the wrong forum,. I am an “oral receptive type:” and rarely if ever lash out at anyone out of nowhere...

Just am realising how utterly stifled I have been, my whole life

No wonder so many have loved to label me usually inaccurately, and often with cruelty, . (not anyone on pc)
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 03:32 PM
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I was told I would go to prison at the age of 4 for........

You will never know. But it was the most trivial “crime” I could think that any four year old cub could commit.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I have a lot of experience with carrying around things I can never tell anyone about. It is a heavy burden.
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 03:42 PM
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i'm sorry you experienced this fuzzy
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 08:52 PM
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Hey there, Fuzzy!

I am so glad I have stumbled upon your thread.

I am very sorry for all you have been through.

I do think that "realizing'" things may be painful initially. Yet, knowing about them can lead to your freedom from any power they may have over you.
I am very hopeful life can get better for you. I am so grateful when I see you sharing like this! Both very grateful and full of hope!
I love you !!! You know where to find me if you ever need anything! hug:
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Old Dec 20, 2019, 10:43 PM
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I'm sorry for your pain, Fuzzy. Is there something special you like to do that brings you a happy feeling?
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 01:52 PM
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What a terrible threat! What can we do to help, dear Fuzzy? You know we care.
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Old Dec 21, 2019, 03:18 PM
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Honeybunny, you identified a horrid abuse you were brainwashed with at a tender age. I know that is painful; it took courage to voice it and post it on here. Good for you. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
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