How do we put them so everyone else can see them, or is it strictly a "admin or moderator has to allow this up"

i don't understand how to make them appear when it says its unapproved?

I guess we can't? understandable if not cause that way the staff can make sure they are fine

its just i thought if we can make them appear on our own pages and report any that need looking at by a staff, it'll save the moderators and admin a job?

[Crazy Hitch]

The Well has answered this question in the past:

Profile visitor message awaiting approval

thanks hitch

*goes looking for a dropdown menu*

I'm guessing I'm supposed to click approve message ?

its not liking it, it just told me off and snapped at me

Status Message
You did not select any valid messages

not sure what i'm doing wrong, cause it got angry and snapped at me

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[Crazy Hitch]

Originally Posted by willowtigger

not sure what i'm doing wrong, cause it got angry and snapped at me

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Did you click on the actual message you want to approve as well?

didnt click anything, sorry i'm a stupid

trying to figure it out ........ ?

i either broke it or i allowed them up, or reported something by accident

willowtigger = very stupid

learning disabilities smells

is someone on the forum being on a "unapproved visitor messages" thing a bad thing for them? idk?

[Crazy Hitch]

I’m sure a mod will get to your profile page in due time and fix the message for you.

ok thanks hitch I don't know if I did it right

cause willowtigger is stupid like *he* always told her when she was a teenager (not on the forum, in real life)

cause willowtigger is stupid

[SlumberKitty]

willowtigger. I wish you wouldn't listen to "him." He lied to you. And is still lying to you in your head. Don't give him that power over you. HUGS kit

Originally Posted by SlumberKitty

willowtigger. I wish you wouldn't listen to "him." He lied to you. And is still lying to you in your head. Don't give him that power over you. HUGS kit

Hard to ignore and un learn something like that when as well as the word "stupid" he would also hit her round the back of the head when he was calling her that word

he'd yell at her a lot as well and often she wouldn't even know/understand what he was angry at her over

willowtigger not good enough

she's in no rush to get anything on her profile fixed cause she knows the staff are busy, so they can take their time getting round to her profile

[SlumberKitty]

Maybe instead of calling yourself stupid and thus perpetuating his lies, you can learn to reframe. You can say, I'm not sure I am doing this right and I am scared to do it wrong. There's nothing wrong with that statement and it doesn't make it about whether you are stupid or not--which you aren't.

I get that it is hard. I have had to unlearn a lot of stuff from my childhood and past. It isn't easy. But it isn't impossible. And I believe you are capable of learning and changing for the better. You are hurting yourself by allowing this person's lies to be perpetuated by you. You are worth more than that. Give yourself a chance. Love on yourself a little.

Hang in there. Eventually it does get easier with practice. Sending you hugs. Kit

*his* upcoming release date from jail is provoking me tbh i don't yet know for certain but i get the bad feeling they will let him out on Ebony's anniversary

Kit deserves plenty of loves though

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by willowtigger

How do we put them so everyone else can see them, or is it strictly a "admin or moderator has to allow this up"

i don't understand how to make them appear when it says its unapproved?

I guess we can't? understandable if not cause that way the staff can make sure they are fine

its just i thought if we can make them appear on our own pages and report any that need looking at by a staff, it'll save the moderators and admin a job?

That is a good question to ask.

I dreamed last night that he decided in the dream to tell me i should of tried harder to save sweetpea Ebony

In the dream he said if shed been scanned by the vet a lot earlier she would still be alive now

Which means willowtigger a murders

It makes no sense cause he hates cats and i think he was secretly happy that Ebony got brain cancers and could not get saved

Idk i just know that he wasnt happy when Tigger didnt cope as a only cat and i got Willow as a friend for her

Willows a baby although she wont admit to that ❤️

Tigger does not make it a secret that shes a baby Tigger ❤️

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by willowtigger

I dreamed last night that he decided in the dream to tell me i should of tried harder to save sweetpea Ebony

In the dream he said if shed been scanned by the vet a lot earlier she would still be alive now

Which means willowtigger a murders

It makes no sense cause he hates cats and i think he was secretly happy that Ebony got brain cancers and could not get saved

Idk i just know that he wasnt happy when Tigger didnt cope as a only cat and i got Willow as a friend for her

Willows a baby although she wont admit to that ❤️

Tigger does not make it a secret that shes a baby Tigger ❤️

I’m sorry to hear about the cat.