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Default Dec 13, 2023 at 02:13 PM
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find the option to turn hugs and thanks on and off? Just curious.
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Default Dec 13, 2023 at 02:15 PM
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I didn’t know there are hugs and thanks?
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Is that even an option I’m not aware of it existing.
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Do you mean giving them, or showing them?
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Oh I dunno. Please disregard.
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Default Dec 14, 2023 at 08:32 AM
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There is no option to turn off thanks and hugs.

If you're accessing our forums via the Tapatalk app, you do not see these thanks and hugs reactions.

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Default Dec 14, 2023 at 12:39 PM
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Thanks for me isn’t a bad thing because I’m sometimes in need of comfort and I don’t mind giving thanks How do I.... Some people just need a hug or something good for their day. Thank ya there are people who respect me enough to say thank you How do I....

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There is no hug button on Tapatalk, at least not the free version I use once in awhile. The "thanks" shows up as a heart to click and I see the number of them, such as a heart with a 2 next to it. So that post got 2 thanks, but I don't think I can see who gave them.

If you give a thanks, it appears in another color than thanks from other members.

I haven't used them it in awhile because it's slow and I don't have a strong enough connection to make it load faster.

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Thanks for me isn’t a bad thing because I’m sometimes in need of comfort and I don’t mind giving thanks How do I.... Some people just need a hug or something good for their day. Thank ya there are people who respect me enough to say thank you How do I....

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Double edged sword for me. It's great to see them but very disappointing when nobody gives them on a post similar to what someone else said, but that member got all the hugs and thanks. Honestly I have mixed feelings about it, since I see many posts with many thanks/hugs and others with nothing.

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Double edged sword for me. It's great to see them but very disappointing when nobody gives them on a post similar to what someone else said, but that member got all the hugs and thanks. Honestly I have mixed feelings about it, since I see many posts with many thanks/hugs and others with nothing.
Its pretty much who the member is vs what the post is about even if its similar.

Kinda like in highschool how one person tells a joke and no one laughs and then the cool kid tells the same joke and everyone laughs. It was who was telling the joke. Not the joke itself.

Thats what I think of hugs and thanks

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Sometimes i just hug the first (most recent) post. Its not you, its me being totally thoughtless.
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Sometimes i just hug the first (most recent) post. Its not you, its me being totally thoughtless.
it doesn't make you a bad person, forgetting to use the hugs or thanks, luna
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Its pretty much who the member is vs what the post is about even if its similar.

Kinda like in highschool how one person tells a joke and no one laughs and then the cool kid tells the same joke and everyone laughs. It was who was telling the joke. Not the joke itself.

Thats what I think of hugs and thanks
So it IS me then.

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Ask, and you shall receive.
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So it IS me then.
For me, it depends whether I'm on my old fart of a phone or not, less and less is working on the old fartphone (not just forum related but apps and stuff as well, so I know its my phone)

I try to hug and thank as much as I can, unless I have a reason to not interact with a particular person.

I would NEVER ignore our Owl though

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I honestly don't even notice how many hugs or thanks I get, its not something I personally bother with

I use them for others, I just never notice if my own posts get hugged or thanked
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I honestly don't even notice how many hugs or thanks I get, its not something I personally bother with

I use them for others, I just never notice if my own posts get hugged or thanked
Some of us who didn't get them growing up or in real life, these are the only hugs we get, period. If I view a thread I subscribe to, I can't help seeing them because I see not only the latest replies but my posts as well. They are directly underneath, if they are there at all.

I ALSO am generous with hugs.

I also avoid forums where people can vote a post up/down or helpful/not helpful.

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Sadly, some people complain if they get hugs and thanks, then complain when they dont get hugs and thanks, so its impossible to "win"
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Sadly, some people complain if they get hugs and thanks, then complain when they dont get hugs and thanks, so its impossible to "win"
Who complains for getting hugs and thanks?
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Who complains for getting hugs and thanks?
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