the transition target??

freedomtoday · Mar 04, 2018, 07:22 PM

hi all,

I'm still learning my way around, and thank you all for the wonderful welcome. I was the transition target, but I broke it off (everything I have read it states they break it off) when i did break it off he said "I cant pull the wool over your eyes, you are too smart" I knew who and what he was -not to the severity now that i am out of the fog and it has been 1.5 months later.

psychopath free states: that he recognized I was emotionally intelligent and uniquely perceptive and that psycopaths settle for targets who dont truly see their behavior. If you are reading this now, that means the psycopath could never settle for you, because over the course of months....you saw through his facade. they need someone who wont catch on.

I don't understand why I feel the way I do. I know he has no capacity to love, no empathy, but after figuring out I was a transitional target, I am stuck? Can anyone help me? I am embarrassed to say I feel like wow I wasn't good enough? I know it makes no sense.

Can someone help me with this block? thank you so much for all your help

leomama · Mar 04, 2018, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by freedomtoday

hi all,

I'm still learning my way around, and thank you all for the wonderful welcome. I was the transition target, but I broke it off (everything I have read it states they break it off) when i did break it off he said "I cant pull the wool over your eyes, you are too smart" I knew who and what he was -not to the severity now that i am out of the fog and it has been 1.5 months later.

psychopath free states: that he recognized I was emotionally intelligent and uniquely perceptive and that psycopaths settle for targets who dont truly see their behavior. If you are reading this now, that means the psycopath could never settle for you, because over the course of months....you saw through his facade. they need someone who wont catch on.

I don't understand why I feel the way I do. I know he has no capacity to love, no empathy, but after figuring out I was a transitional target, I am stuck? Can anyone help me? I am embarrassed to say I feel like wow I wasn't good enough? I know it makes no sense.

Can someone help me with this block? thank you so much for all your help

Transition as in one relationship to the next? Or transition as in transitioning out of a relationship?

freedomtoday · Mar 04, 2018, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by leomama

Transition as in one relationship to the next? Or transition as in transitioning out of a relationship?

https://www.psychopathfree.com/artic...al-target.145/

From above:
Psychopaths are always on the prowl, we know this. But after a longer, more "substantial" relationship, they are usually seeking to take out their hatred.

But after a longer, more “substantial” relationship, they are usually seeking to take out their hatred and contempt on one poison container —a temporary target to dispose of as soon as they find something else.
But as the psychopath transitions from two “stable” relationships, they need something to fill the void in between

But, as you’re starting to see, their actions never match up with their words. Psychopaths are especially indifferent with transitional targets, not really caring one way or another

Transitional targets and truth-seeking targets figured them out, all the way down to their nasty core. But they also recognized that you were emotionally intelligent and uniquely perceptive—you’re a truth seeker, determined to find out what just happened to you.

Psychopaths settle for targets who don’t truly see their nasty behavior. If you’re reading this now, that means the psychopath could never settle for you, because over the course of months, years, or decades, you saw through the facade. They need someone who won’t catch on. Ever.

thank you all for taking the time to read.....

leomama · Mar 04, 2018, 08:19 PM

mine finally let me go after I’d been trying to break free for two years. he couldn’t bend me to his will so he made it look like he ended it to his friends and family and tried to convince me of the same. I had already suffered two years ago when I found he had been lying to me for three years so by the time he let me go all I felt was relief tinged with a meager amount of sadness
What makes you think your guy is a psychopath

leomama · Mar 04, 2018, 08:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by freedomtoday

https://www.psychopathfree.com/artic...al-target.145/

From above:

Psychopaths are always on the prowl, we know this. But after a longer, more "substantial" relationship, they are usually seeking to take out their hatred.

But after a longer, more “substantial” relationship, they are usually seeking to take out their hatred and contempt on one poison container —a temporary target to dispose of as soon as they find something else.

But as the psychopath transitions from two “stable” relationships, they need something to fill the void in between

But, as you’re starting to see, their actions never match up with their words. Psychopaths are especially indifferent with transitional targets, not really caring one way or another

Transitional targets and truth-seeking targets figured them out, all the way down to their nasty core. But they also recognized that you were emotionally intelligent and uniquely perceptive—you’re a truth seeker, determined to find out what just happened to you.

Psychopaths settle for targets who don’t truly see their nasty behavior. If you’re reading this now, that means the psychopath could never settle for you, because over the course of months, years, or decades, you saw through the facade. They need someone who won’t catch on. Ever.

thank you all for taking the time to read.....

Oh and I already read the book

I moderate a live chat for thrive after abuse and that was one of the books we read