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Old May 04, 2011, 11:50 AM
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My friends never say "HI!" to me. Its always me saying hi to them. I'm always trying to start conversations with them, but they never try to start conversations with me. They gladly initiate conversations with their other peers, but never with me.

Whenever they ignore me, I just feel like jumping off a building because it makes me feel like nobody wants to be my friend.

Am I doing something wrong?
Has anybody else felt this way?

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Old May 04, 2011, 08:26 PM
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Oh boy, I feel this way all the time it seems. I ask myself this question all the time.
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My friends never say "HI!" to me. Its always me saying hi to them. I'm always trying to start conversations with them, but they never try to start conversations with me. They gladly initiate conversations with their other peers, but never with me.

Whenever they ignore me, I just feel like jumping off a building because it makes me feel like nobody wants to be my friend.

Am I doing something wrong?
Has anybody else felt this way?
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Old May 05, 2011, 03:26 AM
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No. . . . U r not wrong. . . .
It's probably your friends,
Friends if don't give back attention to u it hurts a lot but hold on there.
Be with people who really do care to call you talk to u, spend time with u,
Sometimes friends don't realize they are wrong,
If u have tried ur best each time then let them try this time. . . .
saying im not talking won't help, talk to them if they talk to u. . . .
U won't believe but the same happened with me n it feels horrible. . . .
But I Too feel just the way u r feeling, let them start the conversation if i mean something to them they will call me up. . . .
If not then also it's k. . . .

I completely understand how u must be feeling. . . .
But hang in there we are all here for u so don't say u r friendless or anything. . . .
Hugs if u need. . . .
Tc. . . . wish u all the best in life. . . .
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Old May 05, 2011, 06:34 AM
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It's k. These things happen but u have to be strong.
If u have tried calling n starting conversations enuf then let them make a start. . . . hugs
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Old May 05, 2011, 06:44 AM
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Sometimes its not about you, its about them. They are into themselves and may not even realize what they are doing. Since you are looking at this you are probably mentally counting the number of times you have been ignored. Probably best not to do this. Try to let it go for now, and make more friends!

Hugs!!!
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Thanks for this!
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